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Hey Oloni, I’ve been in a happy and stable relationship for over a year. Recently my partner introduced me to an old friend/colleague of his. We became cool I guess. But she calls at dumb times me to say she misses being around my man all the time. My partner did say they had never gone beyond friendship so he doesn’t know what she’s talking about. But I still feel weird about it… I’m ‪not looking to rein-act Obsessed. What should I do? 9. July 2017

Oh lord! I watched Obsessed, aint nobody trying to live that life. Have a strong word with your man and explain how you feel regarding this old friend. He clearly needs to talk to her to create some boundaries because she’s clearly disrespecting your relationship. Give him a chance to handle it.

Oloni

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Hi Oloni, So I’ve been with my partner for over 3 years, everything between us is good except for the fact that he has never and refuses to go down on me. The sex is good, I give the best head he’s ever had but he’s from “that generation” where they just don’t do that. I really feel like I’m missing out it’s straight up unfair. I’ve tried everything and I really don’t want this to be a reason to end things but you know I got to get mine too. I’ve explained that to him even but he just laughs it off. Seriously what do I do :(((( 9. July 2017

Hey love, if your boyfriend isn’t keen on performing oral sex with you, then there’s nothing you can really do about it. You can’t/shouldn’t ever force anyone into doing something that doesn’t make them comfortable. All you can do is decide whether or not your relationship can go on without it.

Oloni

Me and my girl have been going out for a while and still enjoy a healthy sex life. I can make her orgasm pretty much every time but never from penetration. Maybe I’m being ungrateful but it does annoy me that after 5 years I still haven’t figured it out! Do you have any tips to help me make this happen! 9. July 2017

Hey hun, sadly not all women climax through penetrative sex. The best thing you can do is focus on how does cum and enjoy that together. Have a conversation with her and ask her what she enjoys the most.

Oloni

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Hi Oloni, me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years. I’m away for university a lot which means we don’t have sex regularly. As a joke for my birthday my girls got me a vibrator from ann summers. When I showed him, he proceeded to tell me that having this meant that I no longer needed him and it was basically a form of cheating. He said its bigger than him and he feels like I can pleasure myself so I no longer need him. Was his reaction warrented? Should I understand where he is coming from? and should I get rid of the toy? 9. July 2017

Okay, first off all sis. You’re not getting rid of that toy. He tried to guilt you out pleasuring yourself. For some reason there are men out there, who have made self pleasure all about them, and it isn’t, it’s for you. Masturbating is very natural and is a great way to get rid of stress, send you off to sleep, plus the obvious.. orgasm. No it’s not cheating.

Have another conversation with him, he’s probably afraid that the vibrator may put on a better performance. It’s no different to him using his hand to masturbate or you using your fingers.

Oloni

Hi Oloni. I recently got back with the guy I was seeing. I really do love him is so crazy but the sex isn’t as good as it used to be. I don’t know how to tell him this. He also likes to perform anal sex but I don’t like it. What should I do 9. July 2017

Talk to him about how you feel.

Oloni .. and tell him that you’re not into anal.

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