Is it ok for your boyfriend to add girls he dont know on instagram
16. July 2017
Is it right or normal to give a girl money while she’s not giving you sex?
16. July 2017
Give your money to whoever you want to give your money to.. but please don’t expect sex.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, I met this guy on IG and we have been chatting quite a lot and I’m beginning to have feelings for him and I guess he also feels the same way too..but the problem is we stay so far from each other and it’s really affecting us..te question is should I give up on him and what we have started..or I should just continue with the flow..I really like this guy..pls help.
16. July 2017
If the distance isn’t a huge problem, go with the flow. You never know what the future can bring.
Oloni
Hi, I love reading your posts 🙂 well here’s my story, I’ve been with my bf for just over a year now. We met on tinder, we’ve progressed fairly smoothly but we keep having issues with him messaging other girls. The first time, I found dating app when he gave me his iPod (note they had gone from his phone). He deleted them. Then my friend found his tinder profile and he claimed he never deleted in properly. This was in the 1st 6 months. More recently, we were chilling in bed and some girls sent him multiple snap chats, he deleted her straight away without even checking it. Later that day another 1, when I kicked off he said she was trying to flirt with him and he let me message her a bit (although it revealed nothing). TBH I’m starting to feel like a mug but I don’t think he’s necessarily physically cheating. Last night we hung out together he wouldn’t turn on his phone. Normally he does but he didn’t touch it once and even put it on charge off. Am I being paranoid or just a mug because I love him?
16. July 2017
Youre not paranoid he’s given you reasons in the past to prove that he’s cheating. Please get rid.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, desperate need of your help. My boyfriend and I of around 8 months have been going really well so far. But yesterday He went through my phone while I was asleep and read through all my private messages etc, there was a dm from a guy I was seeing when I was 16 (I’m 21 in three weeks) all it said was “what’s your snap” to which I have it to him. My boyfriend now knows this and seems to think it’s a terrible thing I have done. There has been no interaction with me and this boy at all. He then proceeded to end things with me because he said he’s been through similar situations with his ex but he would find out worse things than she let on in the beginning. He seems to think I’m doing the same when hand on heart I have been so loyal to him, he also used this reason as a scapegoat to tell me that he feels things have moved to fast and his feelings for me have “levelled out”. Is there any way of mending this as I really have invested so much into this relationship. Thanks xx
16. July 2017
Hey love! Thanks for writing in. Your boyfriend is allowing his past relationship to affect his new one with you. All if this is just a misunderstanding and something like swapping snap names should not be a big enough reason for him to hesitate.
He also shouldn’t have gone through your phone it’s an invasion of your privacy.
Try to see if you can have a conversation where a compromise can happen.
Oloni
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