It was disrespectful but I don’t think it’s worth fighting over. Talk to him, explain how you feel about what he did. It’s ignorant of him. If you never asked him to show you that video of hawkings, why would he just randomly pull it out?

I would also advise that you be careful with this relationship. If you’re looking for something long term, I don’t think you should be with someone who will disrespect your faith.

Oloni

Hey hun every woman has something they’re slightly insecure about… as women we’re told we need to look perfect, but I’m sure even you know that doesn’t exist. If it’s not stretch marks, it’s cellulite.. the answer is to accept who you are and your appearance and to simply be intimate with a guy who makes you feel comfortable.

Oloni

You’re not stretching anything my dear attention from your boyfriend is to be expected.. no idea why he’s busy complimenting other women online and not his own partner.

Speak to him and explain how you feel. There’s so much power in communication. Let me know how it goes.

Oloni

She was wrong for lying but you should speak to her about it. As for her paying? No YOU bought the tickets, not her. Just accept the L and figure out the bigger issue.. why she lied!

Oloni

Hello love! First off I just want to say thanks for writing in to me. I’m also incredibly sorry about what you had to go through. I do hope you are receiving professional guidance through either seeing a therapist/counselor.

To answer your question, I think it’s best to take things slowly and to wait till your comfortable and develop high amount of trust. Once you feel you’re at that level with them, explain your sexual health.

Oloni