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Hi Oloni, hope you’re doing well. A couple of weeks ago my boyfriend of 2 years and I got into a huge argument. He basically accused me of sleeping with other men, which I definitely haven’t, and said that my rape from years ago probably made me promiscuous. My heart sank when he said this, and from his face i could tell that he knew what he said was wrong. I ignored him for two weeks and today we finally talked. he asked me to forgive him and that he never meant to say it. The thing is, i can’t forget what he said and i don’t even want to be near him. I decided that i don’t want to be with him anymore. i told my friends and they said that i shouldn’t throw my 2 year relationship away over this one argument. My question to you is that is it wrong for me to break up with him for this? 21. July 2017

Your friends don’t want you to be happy, because my friends would want to fight a guy who spoke to me like that. The two weeks you gave yourself to think about YOUR decision was a good move. Do not get back with him, his true colours appeared and there’s nothing he can do about it.

Oloni

I’m started to open my heart to God and fair and my boyfriend is the complete opposite. He tried to show me a video of Steven hawking assuming god does exist and I got mad at him? Was this rude and disrespectful or am I over reacting? 21. July 2017

It was disrespectful but I don’t think it’s worth fighting over. Talk to him, explain how you feel about what he did. It’s ignorant of him. If you never asked him to show you that video of hawkings, why would he just randomly pull it out?

I would also advise that you be careful with this relationship. If you’re looking for something long term, I don’t think you should be with someone who will disrespect your faith.

Oloni

Hi Oloni, I’m afraid to have sex since I’m a girl with a lot of body hair. Even if I shave, it’s just not.. the ideal look/feel. I wonder if guys really pay attention to it and if they care a lot. I don’t want to be laughed at 21. July 2017

Hey hun every woman has something they’re slightly insecure about… as women we’re told we need to look perfect, but I’m sure even you know that doesn’t exist. If it’s not stretch marks, it’s cellulite.. the answer is to accept who you are and your appearance and to simply be intimate with a guy who makes you feel comfortable.

Oloni

Hi oloni me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years going onto four very soon. At the beginning of our relationship I was very slim but I’ve put on a lot of weight and I’m like a size 16 now I feel like he doesn’t like me as much and stuff because he always compliments other skinny girls on insta and twitter. What should I do ? I don’t want to confront him because maybe I’m just stretching it 20. July 2017

You’re not stretching anything my dear attention from your boyfriend is to be expected.. no idea why he’s busy complimenting other women online and not his own partner.

Speak to him and explain how you feel. There’s so much power in communication. Let me know how it goes.

Oloni

Hi Oloni, I’ve been dating this girl for 8 months. When we were still in the talking stage she lied about having British passport for whatever reason. Recently I booked a trip somewhere on Europe to surprise her and when I told her sister so she could make sure she was free her sister asked how I managed to get a visa without her knowing. I got so mad that she lied we broke up, am I right to make her pay for her tickets? (They were non refundable) 20. July 2017

She was wrong for lying but you should speak to her about it. As for her paying? No YOU bought the tickets, not her. Just accept the L and figure out the bigger issue.. why she lied!

Oloni

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