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Hey oloni, my girl of 1yr and me got into an argument and I want to know if I’m in the wrong. A few months ago my girl told me she was going clubbing, I got annoyed angry everything but I calmed down and ended up taking her to the club myself that night she wanted to go with her friends. For someone that doesn’t go clubbing in general it took a lot to watch my girl go clubbing and me not be there inside wth her (not once did she offer for to join her and her friends knowing her bestfriend/cousins man was there with her cousin) after getting over that whole situation she wants to go clubbing again (2months later) and when I said obviously I can’t stop you from going but that’s not ganna stop from telling her I don’t like it when she goes clubbing specially when I ain’t there and she gets all angry saying I’m manipulating and controlling when I’ve never stopped her from going anywhere ever so I’m confused. I was meant to meet her father this December but in a past couple of weeks that became uncertain n now we’re broken up
19. October 2017
I’d break up with your ass too. Why are you getting angry and so over protective when your girl says she wants to go out? Being in a relationship shouldn’t stop her from enjoying her friends company from time to time. If you wanted an invite you should have expressed that, but it seems like you just don’t want her in the space of several others. That’s not cool.
You shouldn’t be turning super saiyan, when your parnter says they want to have a night out. It’s odd and shows you might have some insecurities.
Oloni
Hey queen I need your advice; so I was shagging this guy for 6 months and it was amazingggg sex the only thing is he’s a heavy stoner and so he’d often stand me up coming round because he was too blipped. I went on holiday for like a month and when I came back he was airing me… after this I was pissed so shagged his best mate who had been trying to hit for months. The first guy then went mad at me about it when he was fucked and we shagged again. While later I was given results positive from chlamydia from the first lad. He then told me he had a gf so he got chlamydia off his new gf, fucked me and I got it!! The issue is I’m still shagging his friend as he’s into it but I still like the first guy… what do I do 😭
19. October 2017
Stop fucking both guys, you need to get antibiotics and probably go back in another couple of weeks, because it could have also been his friend who gave it to you, and if it wasn’t .. he might still have it, meaning you’re bothing passing this STI back and forth.
Having sex is great, but a few minutes isn’t worth screwing up your health over. Have a talk with your nurse about condoms and other forms of contraception that could work for you.
Oloni
So, I’ve recently decided to get me a sugar daddy, shit I didn’t think I could do this, but hey, I need to get out of debt fast, am I being stupid and would this actually work out?
19. October 2017
It could work, as long as you’re smart about it.
Oloni
Serious dilemma oloni,there’s this guy i’ve been doing for the last 2 years (not regularly) but we have the bombest sex even made a video and all those things just turn me on even more. I really like him and i know he doesnt want anything more than sex,so this year we havent fucked and its cause i’ve been turning him down. But im lowkey craving the D,like serious withdrawal symptoms. Now my question is can i just fuck him one or two times before leaving the situationship? I’ve been saying no and its cause i want him to take me serious but my pussy is saying otherwise 😞😔
19. October 2017
Stop having sex with him hin, lol it’ll just become even more complicated and unhealthy. If that isn’t what you want, run far away and masturbate instead.
Oloni
Hey sisssss, tips and tricks on how to spice up sex life? We’ve been together a while and things are getting repetitive..help?
19. October 2017
Try introducing something new into the bedroom, role play, dressing up, toys, watching porn together.. sex in an unusual place perhaps?
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