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Hey Oloni. my best friend became my boyfriend before he went to jail. we joked about getting married before everything happened but now he’s serious about it. I love him a lot but I know it’s not smart to tie myself to him but love smh. am I stupid?
20. February 2023
If it’s not what you want and you can FEEL it’s stupid. Listen to that because I agree.
Oloni
Hey Oloni! I desperately need advice. I met someone back in 2021 and we vibed really well. The chemistry is great too. But he never seemed to be straightforward about his intentions. We’d have dates, sex and it’s all good. I fell for him hard and I have never told him how I felt. Fast forward to last summer, I asked him what he wanted and he said a 3sum. It was shocking and that’s when I realized this feels like a waste of time now. So i ended things. It hurt but I had to let him go. Just the other day he texted and he wanted to have dinner. Now im confused what his intentions might be
19. February 2023
You asked him what he wanted and he told you, you can either listen or continue to waste your time with someone who isn’t after any serious commitment. Cut him off it will end in tears.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, I need advise! Sex with me favourite fuck buddy tends to be painful. I don’t have any pain with my other fuck buddies mainly because they’re not as big as him. The man is a beast 😍 and I enjoy most of my time with him. But about a few strokes in I start feeling pain down there internally, I suspect it could be because this man hits my cervix pretty easily. Do you have any advise on how to take bigger dick?
19. February 2023
He’s definitely hitting your cervix so you need to communicate that he needs to be careful. Sex shouldn’t hurt, (unless you’ve consented to it). Try the spooning position during sex to help decrease the chances of it thumping at your cervix, we’re not trying to bruise it.
Oloni
My ex who I dumped due to cheating with someone he claimed to love now says he’s come to his senses and realises I’m the one for him. I never fully got over him and he’s beginning to act really genuine and has done some big gestures to win me back… I’m wondering if it’s worth giving him a chance this time round to see if our relationship could be better than before? And then at the first sign of madness, I’ll make it clear that I’ll be leaving him for good. He’s the only person I’ve properly loved. Do you think it’s worth giving him a second chance?
19. February 2023
How do you cheat and say you love someone else, then try to come back? The other person has probably realised he’s aint shit and now he’s returning to you. Don’t be anyone’s second option, you deserve better.
Oloni
Hello Oloni, I’m 24 and I was dating a 41 year old he is a Church Pastor. When dating things seemed fine but I started to notice red flags such as stories of him sleeping with women who were also young in their 20s and younger and him cheating on his wife at the time. Eventually I called him out on the behaviour especially considering he would make comments about us having a threesome which isn’t what I’m into and me having an abortion if I got pregnant or he would abandon the child. My question is do I raise this with the church or God do his thing
19. February 2023
Please leave this man alone and let God deal with him
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