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Where can I get sex toys with discrete packaging??? 12. February 2018

Hergasm. It’s 100 percent discreet. It doesn’t have a giant logo saying “hergasm” when posted lol! It comes in a normal delivery package. Get it here.

Oloni


Hey Oloni, so to make a long story short, I want to know why I keep attracting the wrong men. I keep meeting fuckboys or married men (they hide the fact they’re married)even though I don’t rush into sex with these guys, dress slutty etc. Is it a vibe I’m giving off or something? I consider my attractive and I have goals and talents, educated with a career etc. I want to find a man that wants emotional connection and want marriage eventually. I often feel like I can’t have great sex without love as if I have to choose one or the other. I want to know how to get a guy to see me as wife material instead of friends with benefits? What do I do? 12. February 2018

There’s no such thing as being “wifey material” you can only work on being the best version of yourself. Second, it’s not unheard of for nasty married men to try and pursue young women.

Fuckboys have to approach women doing well for themselves, who else are they supposed to sponge off? Honestly there are several women who can relate.

Try meeting new people, through new experiences. You’ve got this.

Oloni


Hey! So I’ve been talking to this guy for about four weeks now he’s super sweet, caring and everything I could ask for in a guy but he isn’t all that attractive. He isn’t ugly but isn’t idris Elba either. Would I be stupid for completely dropping him ? Considering his only down fall is his looks 12. February 2018

Sounds cliche but looks truly do fade, if he’s a sweet guy, why not give him a chance? At the same time I do think attraction important, so if you still can’t get past him not being Idris, lol, don’t waste his time.

Oloni


Hey Oloni, I’m a virgin and I’m somewhat terrified of sex, but have been growing more curious about it lately. Any advice? 12. February 2018

Heya, it’s normal to feel scared of even curious. My advise is not to rush into ANYTHING and to do some research and perhaps talk to close friends who have explored their sexuality.

Oloni


Hey Oloni, i met this guy 2/3 weeks ago and we get on well ect and have been out on dates since and talk almost everyday. With Valentine’s Day coming up, I don’t know how to approach it kind of thing. Do I ask if we’re doing anything or just go with the flow. I’m also not expecting anything as it is so early 8. February 2018

It’s completely up to you, but in the spirit of the #ValentinesDayChallenge why not ask him?

Oloni


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