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Hey Oloni, I need help. What does it feel like to cum. I know it’s different for everyone else but just roughly? I can squirt and my partner loves it but essentially that’s just me peeing. How do I know if I’ve cum thanks
12. February 2018
So cumming essentially means reaching an orgasm. When you cum, your body feels excited. It’s a high level of euphoria that last for a couple seconds. I’d suggest masturbating, so can try to undderstand your body more.
Hi hun, I’m 18 and I’ve slept with 6 guys including my current boyfriend. I didn’t lose my virginity hella early (I was 17) but my friends make it out like I’m a hoe and it annoys me. I don’t think I’m a hoe I’m just confident with my body. So my friend who is the most vocal about my sexual activity can not keep a man. She was calling me a hoe so I stuck it on her, I said ‘ if a hoe like me can get a man, why can’t a perfect housewife like you can’t keep one?’ Now she’s not talking to me and I don’t feel like I’ve done anything wrong. What shall I do?
12. February 2018
Lol, i appreciate the clap back I do lmao. However, you’re supposed to be friends, friends shouldn’t be keeping tabs on each others vagina’s. She’s probably envious if I’m honest. Lord, it’s “What were doing at 21?” all over again.
Give eacch other some space then talk about how you’ve been feeling.
Oloni
Hey Oloni I’ve been seeing this guy for about 9 months or so. He acts as if he is my man. We go out in public, I do go to his house however Its really late. I don’t feel it is a relationship because he already has a girlfriend. We have spoken about it which he said he doesn’t like her and is waiting for her to break up with him as she’s done so much for him in the past and he will feel bad. He will say stuff like I only spend my time you etc. Which makes me feel as if what he is saying has truth but its like if you don’t like someone why stay in the relationship. Am I being stupid and naive.
12. February 2018
You are being stupid and naive. Stop talking to a guy who doesn’t have the balls to leave his girlfriend. Men who cheat are also liars, so I have no idea why you’re believing in what he’s saying.
He’s literally playing you both.
Oloni
Hi oloni. I’d been talking to this guy from last september when suddenly he stopped talking to me in december. We never went on any dates but we did talk a lot over phone/text. Then randomly the other night he called me. He said he hadn’t spoken to me in a while and wanted to see how I’m doing as he thought I ghosted him? anyways i told him how i felt and he said hes sorry if thats how i felt and he asked me to meet him the following day. Thing is, he asked me to go to his flat and he said hes okay with going out but doesnt have a lot of money. what should i do?
12. February 2018
Tell him to call you when it’s pay day. He thinks he’s slick, he’s trying to fuck you.
Oloni
Hi Oloni my boy’s girl is linking one of my other boys and doing all sorts with him. My two boys don’t know each other like that but they’ve met before through me a couple times and they’re cool with each other. I warned my boy about this girl cos she has a reputation and a body count longer than the queues in Lidl on a Sunday afternoon but he said he aint insecure and don’t worry about shit like that which I hear but this girl is scandalous. I told my other boy to lock it off and he said he will and he said he didn’t know she had a man, let alone someone he was cool with. I know that if I tell my boy about what his mrs has been up to there’s gonna be fireworks. I don’t want this to happen. I don’t even know what to do in this situation. I sent a dm to his girl to tell her to tell him the dirt but not say who it was with but she said she ain’t saying shit and she blocked me on Twitter. What should I do? I don’t wanna see two of my boys fighting other this ting cos she ain’t worth it but I can’t let her get away with this.
12. February 2018
Jesus, lol. I think it’s best if you just tell the guy she’s in a relationship with, she can’t be crazy enough to deny it further, espcially when YOU know who it’s with.
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