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Hi Oloni, I have been married for 8 years now. I love my husband to bits. I have only had 1 sexual partner other than my husband and the sex was okay. My husband in the beginning was so adventurous in the bedroom! He taught me everything I know about oral sex, giving and receiving, but now he has become so boring. Nine times out of ten, I have to please myself after sex. There’s no foreplay. It has become increasingly frustrating as the only time I get kisses or hugs is because he wants sex. Fed up tbh. Don’t know what to do. I’ve expressed to him that sex has become a chore but no change. Thoughts? Outside of the sex, he is a great man, but I have a tickle that needs itching. Yours truly <30yrs old mother of 2 and wife
23. October 2023
Hey hun! So sorry about this. I’d say you should stop sleeping with him. If the sex is bad why are you having it?
I feel like, maybe you could work on increasing your sexual currency. There’s a good chapter about this in my book, but I think it could definitely help until he is ready to make it clear he cares about your pleasure.
Oloni
Hey Oloni. So I had sex for the first time a recently. I’m a 24 year old guy. It was amazing and I got a 9/10 review for making her cum twice by giving her head, but she lives in a different city and was in London only temporarily. What advice do you have for me to find FWB. I’m at Uni studying a competitive course and don’t have time for a relationship unfortunately. Just looking for something casual. I’m a big fan of your podcasts; it’s very informative and entertaining for guys too thanks 🙂
23. October 2023
Thank you so much for loving the podcast but honestly casual sex is not hard to come by. There are so many dating apps that people use for hook ups. Explore and have fun and remember to be safe
oloni
I can only cum in my dreams and with a vibrator the sex me and my bf have is amazing but I’ve never been able to cum from penetration. Orally once. It was very unexpected, with a man I barely liked. With penetration, I often feel close but cannot seem to get over that hump. Please help.
23. October 2023
Hi oloni, im trying out being poly and im seeing a girl and a guy. The only thing is the girl stays 5 hours away from me and I’ve broken up with her twice. We seem emotionally connected but the sex is not good. Im traumatized from the first time. Im thinking if ending it because i hate long distance and i dont see the point if we aren’t sexually compatible. I still want to be her friend. How do you think i should go about it?
23. October 2023
Have a conversation and express how you feel but please do not go back!
oloni
Hi. Bit of a crazy one but I do sw and I received a customer that shocked my life forever. It was my cousins man of 3 years. Well since that day he’s been raw dogging me whenever he wants because he knows I can not let any of my family find out. Even tho he didn’t blackmail me, I knew that was the only way to keep him quiet but after every time I cry because I know I’m doing my cousin wrong. Idk what to do about it, should I tell her and let my secret out or try to tell him this isn’t right and we need to stop. The sex is good and it’s been going on for 3-4 months now btw
23. October 2023
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