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Hi oloni, I’m really hopeless at this dating game. I’ve been on a few dates and the guy always ends up blocking me straight after. One guy blocked me minutes after leaving the date. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. Any tips? 26. April 2018

That’s really weird. They ALL block you after?

I need more detail, cus right now it sounds like you’re communicating with them off dating apps, you meet, you turn out to be cat fish and they block.

Oloni

Hi, I’m 25 soon and I’ve never had a boyfriend before. I have had sex with 5 different guys in my life which is trash I know. I get told I’m attractive and look nice And a nice person so I’m just wondering what is going wrong because at this point I’m starting to get worried. Thanks. 26. April 2018

Hey hun, the number of men you’ve had sex with doesn’t have anything to do with why you’re not in a relationship. I always ask young women who ask this question, just exactly what they’re doing in order to find a commitment. I find a lot of people are more interested in a relationship and not the journey to get one.

Do you date often?? Have you tried going to different social events to meet new people? Have you created new friends? Joined various dating apps? Gone to networking and dating events? If not those are some tips.

Work on yourself as a person too! Good luck x

Oloni

How can I stop my man from trapping? When I first met him I didn’t realise that was his “hustle”. One of his friends died recently and I’m sure it has something to do with trapping. I really like him and I’m not willing to leave him. He has plans for the future and he says he’s only doing this now to get his “money up”. How can I convince him to leave trapping behind? 26. April 2018

You can’t.

Oloni

My boyfriend doesn’t groan when we have sex. It makes me feel like my pussy is trash but I don’t know how to bring this up. Would it be weird to tell him to start groaning when we have sex? 26. April 2018

Aww lol some men and women are naturally silent when engaging in intercourse, but talk to him and tell him this. He may not necessarily have to groan, but if he says something that’s a turn on during sex that should be seen as just as good.

Oloni

I’ve been at my boyfriend for almost a year now this is his first relationship btw our relationship is perfect he is amazing and the sex is great. BUT I haven’t given him head yet although i really want to I just don’t know how to go about it and he’s never bought it up himself so I don’t want to make it awks or make him uncomfortable about the topic , but I know he wants me to do it , why hasn’t he said anything ? his never gone down on me either but I don’t really mind that. What do I do lol 26. April 2018

Calm down love!! Lol it just sounds like you both need to communicate your wants when you’re outside of the bedroom.

“Babe, what would you like me to do more of when we’re having sex?”

“I’ve been reading tips on Oloni’s blog for giving head. We should try it.”

Lol.. but forreal here are some tips.

As for him going down on you, just ask if he’s into it.

Oloni

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