Heya hun as you know I’m sure, discharge is extremely normal for women, but if you’re really worried about it, see a GP or a sexual health nurse. My personal advice for keeping there all clean and healthy is to stay away from soaps, and wipes and use to strictly water to keep her clean. The vagina self cleans and does this with the help of discharge, so once again it is completely normal.

Also, try to maintain a healthy diet and exercise regularly, I once read that this too helps.

Oloni

Hey hun, there could be a number of reasons why your boyfriend was checking it out. It could have been out of curiosity, a fetish etc. He’s allowed to look at any type of porn he wants, even if it might make you uncomfortable, as long as it’s in his own private time.

Ask him about what “stumbled” across and see how her responds to get a more accurate idea.

Oloni

That was rather trash! Why would you do that? was your intention to STEAL him?

I think you should come clean and give whatever is left from the friendship some space. You also need some time to really think about what drove you to doing that. Was it jealousy? Was it the lack of love interest? Why?

Oloni

Heya hun, it could be the sex and could also be unrelated.  I think it’d best to see a sexual health nurse just to be on the safe side and if you still have any more worries.

Oloni

Heya, you’ve created a sexual routine with him, so that’s all he’ll expect, unless you speak up about it. The best thing to do is mention it and try going out dates.

Oloni