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Hey love! You need to block this girl till you feel secure in yourself. It’s clear as day and as you have acknowledged that this has taken a toll on your self esteem. I don’t personally know you, so I can’t tell you what to work on to help rebuild that, but you really need to work on yourself and also understand that there will always be women who are taller, thinner, slimmer, shorter, curvier and prettier than you, that’s going to always be there. What YOU need to focus on is figuring out what makes you unique, once you know that, nothing can move you in my opinion. I hope you really do work on yourself before getting back into another relationship. Oloni Heya, it makes sense as to why you’d be uncomfortable. It’s embarrassing if your boyfriend is online being specific with what sexual acts he’d do with someone else. It sounds like he could have a obsession with the reality tv star. Talk to him and explain what you saw, what you’ve noticed and how it makes you feel. I do think he shouldn’t have tweeted that, especially as he’s in a relationship. Oloni Hey love! Don’t be frustrated, the positive in this is that you KNOW how you like to be stimulated. Now all that needs to happen is that you teach your sexual partner how you like to be pleasured, be patient and practice and if he’s dedicated to learning about your body and pleasing you, you’ll see improvements during intimacy. I’d also suggest investing a small sex toy, such as a vibrating bullet which is amazing to use during penetration. Oloni This doesn’t seem like exclusivity to me. It sounds like hook ups which benefit both parties. Ask him in person if he’s sleeping with anyone else, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with doing so… just bring it up in conversation! Oloni Better use wisdom..
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