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Hey Oloni, I’m crying as i type this cus I don’t know what to do. I’m getting married in two weeks even after recently finding out my fiancé was having an affair with his sisters best friend. I forgave him. Stupid .. i know.. but we’ve spent so much on this wedding. It’s even featured on major outlets… yesterday he told me that the girl was pregnant for him. I’m so angry with myself because i’m also with child. We’re a couple months apart ..I lost my virginity to this man and I am deeply in love with him as he is all i’ve ever known. I’ve begged him to bribe her to get an abortion but he called me stupid and said he won’t do that to his child. Should I still move forward with the marriage? My whole family from Nigeria are coming to the UK for it. Anon pls 25. July 2018

Oh wow! 💔

I’m so sorry to hear what you’re going through. Right now you need to be around good friends, because this is way to messy for you to deal with on you’re own.

What he has done is selfish and quite frankly unforgivable. Please do not go through with that wedding as I always say broken engagement is better than a broken marriage.

He’s broken vows before your day, so just imagine what you will deal with if you tie the knot. Men do not change at the alter, so please don’t follow through with it.

Whilst I understand your rage it was wrong of you to get your partner to bribe her. The decision of keeping a baby is hers alone.

I think it’s best you explain to your immediate family what he has done. This type of betrayal is not one you sweep under a carpet and smile about after. He got a whole other woman pregnant…?

I hope you heal and also take care of yourself for your baby, but please let this man go. He deserves himself.

Oloni

Hey Oloni. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now but I have never orgasmed when we have sex or any kind of foreplay. We’ve tried different positions and all types of foreplay and nothing has worked. I know it’s possible because I can do it solo but it’s becoming frustrating that our sex life as a couple just isn’t satisfying me completely even though I still enjoy it when we have sex. Do you have any advice? 25. July 2018

Hey love! Keep fighting for that orgasm and DO not lose hope. It’s a known fact that a lot of women find it hard to climax through penetrative sex.

If you’re able to reach an orgasm through solo play, try bringing a sex toy to the bedroom for clitoral stimulation. Ask him to use it during foreplay and you can use it during penetration. A great position to use it would be doggy-style.

Oloni

Hi Oloni, my boyfriend and I always make sure we practice safe sex even when having oral sex. The problem is I give him head using a condom and he doesn’t find it enjoyable. I don’t want to stop using condoms so what should I do? 25. July 2018

There are several different condoms available which you could use so it feels pleasurable for him. Explore your choices and get regular STI check ups so you know whether or not it’s safe to have oral sex without a condom.

Oloni

Hey Oloni! Been with my boyfriend a year now and he is a truly great guy. He is 33 and I’m 21. But the thing is mans got two babies with two different women, and I just want to know if you think there is a chance we could still have a real future together? Hoping for a reply o😊 25. July 2018

Honestly, no. You’re way too young to be dealing with this father of two for two different women.

Please find a guy between 22-26 without a child.

Oloni

Dear Oloni, I met this guy from London a few weeks ago on Tinder. We went out for drinks and ended up having sex. After that we hung out twice before he left because he’s always busy. I went to London to visit family and asked him if we could hang out again but he pied me again and told me he had things to do. I always text him first and I feel like I’m doing too much. Should I just let him go and stop talking to him? 25. July 2018

Hey hun, you guys just hooked up. He’s not after anything more. Just move on and try a new dating app like Happn.

Oloni

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