Heya love! You’ve recognised the issue, so it’s good that you have distanced yourself. It’s a healthier decision which allows you to move on emotionally. You could become friends, you might not and while I get that you miss your friendship, it’s vital to let that idea go for now and focus on just moving on.

Once you’ve done that, after some time perhaps you could explore those options in terms of friendship.

Oloni

Whew. Well i know what will be question of the day later.

I understand he wants to be a good friend, but this is way too much. Doesn’t she have any female friends?

I don’t think I’d feel comfortable if another woman asked my partner to be involved in the delivery of her baby. It’s a big deal and a very emotional moment which can create mixed signals. I’m sure women release all sorts of hormones during this time as well. Nope. Messy.

Tell him how you feel!

Oloni

I would advise taking it slowly especially as your last relationship was toxic. I say this because when you leave something awful you assume that the new warm feeling is 100x better, when in reality it’s not as amazing as you think. There’s a chance your past relationship could cloud the judgment of how great your new situation is.

Heal first!

Oloni

You need to pump the breaks on your relationship and ne honest about how you feel bu telling him, exactly what you told me.

There’s a chance you could end up resenting him, if you try to pretend you’re ok. Your feelings are valid, so speak up!

Oloni

If you hate it, you hate it. Don’t force it! Find other ways to pleasure him such as hand jobs, and trying new sex positions. Sex shouldn’t feel like a chore, it should be enjoyable for both people involved.

Oloni