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I’m kinda feeling this girl but she keeps on saying for me to secure her properly I have to be a nASSty nxxga and bocat her??? -____- surely this can’t be the only way to secure her??????
14. November 2018
Get to licking or get to stepping.
Oloni
Hey, I’ve recently started using dating apps and for the first time I was questioned about my virginity. I am a virgin and I am more than happy to state this given the right time. I’m an honest person but I also don’t feel comfortable with sharing that information with someone I’ve only been talking to for a few days. How is the best way to respond when questioned, because I want to be honest but at the same time it’s not their business?
14. November 2018
You say, “that’s private”. Which it is. You’re right, someone you’ve only been speaking to for a couple of days should not be asking you about your sexuality, especially if the conversation wasn’t heading that way.
Oloni
My boyfriend drinks 2 bottles of wine to himself Saturday and sunday night. Every week. Is this normal??
14. November 2018
He could have a problem. I’m not entirely sure, but it sounds so. Speak to him about it and share your concerns.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, my boyfriend got another girl pregnant. She didn’t keep it even though she really wanted it. He promised me they no longer talk. but the whole situation has me feeling a type of way. The two of them were very good friends you could almost say she was his female best friend. Also I feel like he’s not completely over her.
14. November 2018
He’s not your boyfriend sis. He got another chick pregnant, as in.. she nearly brought LIFE into this world, because he was disrespecting YOUR relationship by cheating. Why do you want him, is he rich? Regardless you have to let this dude go.
Oloni
My girlfriend is boring. We’ve been together for almost 5 years. I work hard with a full time job and also have a side hustle, When an opportunity arises I make the effort to plan something nice for us to do. If I don’t plan anything we don’t do anything. I love this girl to death. My sex drive is very high. She never initiates sex and when I initiate sex it’s always no. I’ve tried speaking to her about it, but nothing. It’s driving me crazy.
14. November 2018
If you’ve spoken to her about everything you’ve mentioned to me, it’s sad to say but maybe it’s time you exit the relationship. Forcing it with her will only cause more problems. It’s best to be with someone who you’re compatible with emotionally and sexually.
Oloni
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