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I’m dating A very rich man, he’s 40 and 21. He’s never been married or had kids so life is unproblematic. We have dated over a year and he wants to get married soon. My issue is the age difference. His sister is older than my mum. But the bagggg💰💰 is too sweet and I know my future will be sorted with him And I love him too. Please help ? 12. March 2019

You’re grown, so you can do what you want. I do think marriage is something you shouldn’t rush into, so perhaps take your time?

Oloni

Do you only do dilemmas once a month now? 28. February 2019

Hahahaha I’ve been very busy. I apologise. I’ll be back soon. For the mean time listen to the podcast Laid Bare Podcast. Search it! We answer dilemmas there too x

Hi Oloni, I was with my boyfriend for 2 years – he was my first everything and the only man I had ever slept with. We broke up briefly for one month and later reconciled, and I asked him if he had slept with anyone else while we weren’t together. I said I’d prefer if he was honest – and he said no. After trying to make it work again and it failing, a month on after not speaking he tells me he caught chlamydia and that I should get checked meaning he lied to me. Thanks to you, I went to the clinic two days before he messaged me just to be sure that I was completely clean. I just wanted to express my gratitude for the awareness you spread to women like myself! 28. February 2019

So glas to hear this1 Health is wealth.

Oloni

Hi Oloni, so I met this guy who is probably perfect, but my main attraction to him was the connections he has in the industry he works in, which would be super helpful for my career. I’m not really the type to go and finesse but that’s kind of what I’ve been doing. Now I’m actually with him officially and just not happy. He’s a lovely person but I’m just not feeling him, but if I dead it, I feel like my career will just be moving backwards. What should I do? 29. January 2019

Oh Lordy. “Is it me, or the clout?”

You’re just punishing yourself by staying in a commitment which makes you unhappy. You could still end up ending on good terms, but regardless.. it’s not a great idea to be with him just because of what he can do, when you’re not there emotionally. If you were with him for his connects and the fact he made you happy this wouldn’t bad at all.

Oloni

I’ve slept with 20 people, and I’m aged 20. I’m somewhat embarrassed and my friends are all telling me to lie and lessen this number to help find a boyfriend. What should I do? 29. January 2019

LOL your friends aren’t completely wrong and I understand. Sadly due to how a woman’s sexuality is seen we omit the truth. Who you’ve slept with is no one’s business, what should matter is how enjoyable it was, what you learned about your sexuality and if you’ve been checked recently.

Oloni

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