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Hey Oloni, recently started speaking to a guy who I know just got out of a long term relationship, how do I know if I’m just a rebound or if this could actually be something!! Are there signs to look out for? Thanks!
16. May 2019
Every person is different but if he’s rushing things between the two of you, I’d say beware. Make sure he’s an option and take it slow, so you don’t hurt yourself.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, Hope you are well! Okay so I know your all clued up on smear tests on what not. I recently had mine and it came back that I have HPV but no abnormal cells, so I just have to go back for another smear in one year. My question is, do you think this is something that I should be discussing with my partner? Is it that serious? I’ve read up on it and all the info is a bit scary tbh. Thanks in advance girl X
15. May 2019
Heya, yeah I think any conversations around health should be ones to have with your partner.
Oloni
Hey Oloni, what does it mean when my boyfriend likes pics of random girls in bikinis on IG?
15. May 2019
It means he likes women in bikinis and if his girlfriend has an issue with it, she should talk to him directly about it.
Oloni
How do I continue having casual sex with herpes?
15. May 2019
See a sexual health nurse for more advice, but always use condoms. Educate your sexual partner on what herpes is and never have sex during an outbreak.
Oloni
So I’ve been seeing this guy for a year or so, but when I ask him when is our “anniversary” he says he doesn’t know… bare in mind he hasn’t been loyal to me on some occasions eg he’ll blatantly check out other girls who have their breast out etc, he lied about not having Instagram (I’ve never been fussed about social media- just found it strange he lied to me about it?..) both our parents know about each other and he says he wants to marry me, but I don’t trust him because of how he has been with me in the past (lying, not being loyal etc). Should I work on it or just let it go???? I can easily get over things (but I do like him a lot) what would your advice be?😭
15. May 2019
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