You just sound really nervous and that’s fine! There are different levels of how a woman can take control sexually. I do think if you start off slowly you can work your way up to fulfilling his fantasy. Start off my initiating the kisses, the fondling, verbally telling him what to do in bed too. The more it’s done, the more confident you’ll become.

That must be extremely annoying! I do answer this in my latest eBook: 100 Questions

Yes.

You don’t do anything. That’s their ignorance not yours, a virgin can do her research.

You don’t need a side guy dear! You need to think about where this relationship is heading. It’s not great if he doesn’t call his own girlfriend and even terrible if he doesn’t answer your calls. You’re a woman and women LOVE attention. Even if the conversations aren’t 30 minutes long. A quick call a couple times a week to check on you should be enough. I understand why you feel he might have some else occupying his time, but right now you have to ask yourself ‘Do I really want to be with someone who can’t do basic things within a relationship?’

So what he doesn’t like phone calls. If you like them their should be some compromising, you’re not asking for a lot, that’s how relationships WORK!