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I had a crush on this guy and he had a crush on me but we never really did anything about it because we’re in the same friendship group although we did flanter (flirt and banter) anywaysss we kissed a friends party. After that, we began dating. He was so sweet and nice and would make the effort to see me all the time. Then we slept with each other twice and he doesn’t message as much or makes the effort to see me anymore. I can’t help but feel like it was just the sex for him now even though he said it wasn’t and that he actually liked me. We haven’t spoken in a while yet technically we are still dating or seeing each other or whatever. Do you think I should call it off or call him up on it and how should I approach it? Thanks Hun
9. May 2015
He could be loosing interest which he is allowed to do, don’t assume it was sex alone he was after. Talk to him again and if he still seems distant go find what your heart would desire elsewhere.
Hey dami, so I’ve been talking to this guy for a few weeks and I really like him but i know he’s talking to other girls too. What should I do
9. May 2015
Nothing, it’s been a few weeks, not months. Relax.
Hi Oloni. My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for about 7 months now but we’ve been very close friends for almost 5 years. Recently, our relationship has felt very forced. When we speak he conversations don’t last longer than 5 minutes and we often only really meet up to have sex. It is fair to say that we have a much better relationship and sex when we were friends. How do I bring that same spark back into our relationship. Any suggestions?
9. May 2015
It’s great that you built a solid foundation by being friends for so long. You can bring that spark back by acting as friends again and doing what friends do with a little bit of romance. Do you go out on dates? Do you stay up all night talking? Do you send suggestive texts randomly in the day? Try all these things! I hope that helps. Oooh and lastly talk to him about how you feel.
Hi oloni I really need advise. I’ve been seeing this girl for sometime now and I really like her, think I’m falling in love but I just can’t seem to act right, I act reckless when drunk and don’t respect her at times I’m having issues claiming her. Is this a problem within me? How can I go about it or should I just spare her the heart ache and end it
9. May 2015
It just seems like you’re nit ready to date! You also need to work on yourself, you can’t treat her right if you do not know HOW to act right.
I was recently talking to this guy & everything was going fine, we were only talking on social networks like whatsapp and twitter but it seemed like we had soo much in common & I could potentially see myself in a relationship with him, however after we met up I completely lost interest in him, i really didn’t like spending time with him, this as happened to me 3 times, every time I meet someone I lose interest in them
9. May 2015
3 is not that bad, it’s part of whole experience of dating. You have to CARRY on and find new ways to meet guys. You’ll be fine, just watch.
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