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I know this is abit of a serious question to ask but I don’t know who else to ask. I just want to know Oloni, is it okay that I don’t tell me boyfriend of 7 years about my past of sexual abuse.. I mean I trust him and all but I’m afraid to open up about it, I don’t know how he’ll react. It’s a very sensitive topic that I don’t know how to approach. Am I wrong for feeling this way ?
12. May 2015
Hey! You do it when you’re comfortable. If it’s on your mind and you feel ready to, do so. You’ve been together for a very long time, so I’m sure there must be a lot of trust within this relationship. It’s a very hard topic to discuss, so also use that opportunity to explain why you took some a while to tell him.
Hey, I’m the girl who sent her man the nudes! I didn’t realise I sent my question incomplete, sorry!but he’s seen me naked before and we’ve been together for 2 years… It’s the first time I’ve sent him nudes! I’ve spoken to him about it but he says it’s nothing and it’s nothing big that I sent nudes… Am I overthinking it do you think? It’s just really annoying because it’s lowered my confidence and he doesn’t understand that 🙁
11. May 2015
He love, you have to explain that to him if you feel this way It’s understandable as every girl wants her man to oogle at her. Speak about it!
Girl I really need your help! I sent my man nudes the other day and he’s not said anything about it! If anything he’s been acting really weird, as if I’ve put him off ? I’ve spoken to him about it, asked what’s wrong and he keeps telling me nothing. I don’t know what to do, it’s really are
11. May 2015
If he says it’s nothing let him know what your thoughts are. When you exchange nudes with your partner it’s normally appreciated when a sexy comment is made back. Let him know how you feel.
I was seeing this boy for a few months last year then we kinda drifted apart..however we started talking recently and have met up a couple of times but I don’t know if it’s too soon to tell him that I like him etc ?
11. May 2015
You can let him know you’re interested in him, there’s no harm.
Been in a relationship with my ex-gf for 6 yrs, we recently went our seperate ways a few months ago but I’ve been trying to win her back because ive realised thats the girl I love and want to build a future with her. Trying to win her back has been difficult becuase shes not let anything go ive begged, apologised suggested solutions on how we can make things better to no avail. What should i do? Im losing patience.
11. May 2015
If you’re doing all the things you’ve mentioned and it still isn’t changing her mind, you’re painfully going to have to let her go. Who knows maybe in time she’ll come around, just don’t keep forcing her. It’ll just make things worst.
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