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Hi oloni I really need advise. I’ve been seeing this girl for sometime now and I really like her, think I’m falling in love but I just can’t seem to act right, I act reckless when drunk and don’t respect her at times I’m having issues claiming her. Is this a problem within me? How can I go about it or should I just spare her the heart ache and end it
9. May 2015
It just seems like you’re nit ready to date! You also need to work on yourself, you can’t treat her right if you do not know HOW to act right.
I was recently talking to this guy & everything was going fine, we were only talking on social networks like whatsapp and twitter but it seemed like we had soo much in common & I could potentially see myself in a relationship with him, however after we met up I completely lost interest in him, i really didn’t like spending time with him, this as happened to me 3 times, every time I meet someone I lose interest in them
9. May 2015
3 is not that bad, it’s part of whole experience of dating. You have to CARRY on and find new ways to meet guys. You’ll be fine, just watch.
Hey oloni, I’m the girl who asked about dick pics nd I have to say your response and othe people’s responses on Twitter have really helped! I’ve discussed with him how I felt about it nd ended my relations with him because it turns out we both want different things. His intentions are more sexual as you can guess! It was all too strange because I haven’t actually met him in person yet LOL I didn’t think people could feel comfortable sending dick pics to people they haven’t seen in person. But anyway thanks a bunch and I purchased your recent book, absaloutely LOVE it girl! You’re heading towards greatness! Sending Lots of love and support your way xx
9. May 2015
Thank you so much dear your kind words mean so much! Glad I & (twitter) could help! Lolxx
RE: Nudes… Oloni, this guy ive been talking to for a while recently sent me d!ck pics randomly nd I dont know how to feel about it. I mean i never asked for him to send them to me nd Ive never sent him any. i feel like its going to change the whole atmosphere of our relationship… Ive never done anything with him nd have made clear that I wont for a while… i dont know if i’m wrong for this or im just overthinking it too much its just changed the way i look at him a bit, i think… im not sure what im feeling it just feels weird and i dont know how to explain it properly. Ive been with quite a few men in my time nd this has never happened to me so. I guess what im asking is, do u think im overthinking it and should get over it or is it normal for me to feel this way? Thankyou in advance xoxo
9. May 2015
It’s only normal if he’s after sex alone and that is all I think he wants to be frank with you. Unsolicited dick pics are so cringe worthy so I understand why you feel how you do.
If you already had the talk, then he should have respected that instead of sending unrequested images of his private bits.
If a guy I’ve been speaking to for a few weeks randomly decides to cut communication with me, is it a crazy move if I go about looking for answers so I can rest? Because it’s really has bothered me, especially as I KNOW I haven’t done anything wrong.
9. May 2015
A few weeks? Come on, that shouldn’t bother you. However you can send a message or try to call. If you get no response, let it go.
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