You don’t need a side guy dear! You need to think about where this relationship is heading. It’s not great if he doesn’t call his own girlfriend and even terrible if he doesn’t answer your calls. You’re a woman and women LOVE attention. Even if the conversations aren’t 30 minutes long. A quick call a couple times a week to check on you should be enough. I understand why you feel he might have some else occupying his time, but right now you have to ask yourself ‘Do I really want to be with someone who can’t do basic things within a relationship?’

So what he doesn’t like phone calls. If you like them their should be some compromising, you’re not asking for a lot, that’s how relationships WORK!

He could be loosing interest which he is allowed to do, don’t assume it was sex alone he was after. Talk to him again and if he still seems distant go find what your heart would desire elsewhere.

Nothing, it’s been a few weeks, not months. Relax.

It’s great that you built a solid foundation by being friends for so long. You can bring that spark back by acting as friends again and doing what friends do with a little bit of romance. Do you go out on dates? Do you stay up all night talking? Do you send suggestive texts randomly in the day? Try all these things! I hope that helps. Oooh and lastly talk to him about how you feel.

It just seems like you’re nit ready to date! You also need to work on yourself, you can’t treat her right if you do not know HOW to act right.