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This is a past situation but I was I in a relationship with this girl for about 4 months, she was a virgin so I didn’t want to rush her, when she finally said she was ready she kept on making stupid excuses and say she doesn’t want to anymore ( excuses like you didn’t tell me good morning) so I broke up with her just want to know if you feell i did the wrong thing
11. May 2015
She was having second thoughts and wasn’t really ready. You did the right thing by not pressuring her.
Am I over reacting. My partner whilst we were on a break took this girl on a date and admited that he wanted to sleep with her. When we got back together he still talks to her and I have ask him not to but he still talks to and say they’re just friends and I can’t tell him who to talk to. It was my birthday and after she saw he was with me she started ringing down his phone repeatedly so we got into a argument and he said I’m ungrateful amd how I’m a drama queen and he didn’t know that she was going to ring him. Am I wrong for not wanting them to talk to each other? Am I over reacting to think that she has no respect neither does he?
11. May 2015
He’s still clearly emotionally involved with this girl or is telling her another story about the two of you. No other woman should be calling off a guys line like that if there still isn’t anything going on between the two of them. You have every right to ask him to cut her off. You’re not being a drama queen, he’s be an ass wipe.
What should i do? Me and my partner doesn’t have sex a lot once every 3months if that.. I’m am sexually frustrated and when we do it only last couple of minutes and I’m never satisfied because it’s never how I like it and it’s always over before it even start. I have spoken to him but he says we don’t have sex regular because he had sex so much that now he doesn’t enjoy it….Should I stay or leave?
11. May 2015
If that’s the answer he’s given, then you have to think ans ask yourself whether or not you can stay in a relationship where you feel sexually deprived.
Hello. I and my male best friend have been friends for close to 10 years now. we used to see eachother sexually until we got into our separate relationships. I broke up with my ex after about 4.5 years he broke up with his ex after like 7 years. Despite the feelings we had for eachother we looked out for eachother and was still able to have a laugh, go out from time to time and have fun, As a friend I was there for him whenever he needed help when him and his girl were having issues and I was never biased just because I had feelings for him, Never. But when he broke up with her it was a sigh of relief we started seeing eachother sexually again, for about 9 months. I’m 5 months pregnant now, and his ex is branding me a side girl because she was there “first” – if I wanted to be technical I could say I was there first cause I was. But I feel compassionate towards her slightly obviously because I’m sure she loves him. He’s an amazing guy, I love him as a person and sort of glad he’s the person in having a child with him, but honestly I do feel it’s put a strain on our friendship and feel he’s now in limbo because he’s into two women and it’s hard to understand what to do when you love both of them but now there’s a child involved. I’m not a side chick. In retrospect they were having a bad relationship she was cheating on him so he left – to be honest I picked up her pieces I just didn’t make him my boyfriend, she was just trying to hold on to something she knew she messed up when she found out he was seeing someone… But does that make me a side chick? I don’t know – Mona
11. May 2015
Hey Mona, well first off congrats on your new bundle of joy. You should be happy! This is such a difficult one, but it sounds like you just pissed off a bitter ex. Your focus shouldn’t be on her if what you and the father of your child did was OUT of a relationship. No one cheated, no one lied.
Your only focus should be communicating with your child’s father and and trying to figure out where his heads at. You’re not a sidechick, but what else is she going to call you when she’s pissed? Yes she hurt, but her hurt is not your concern.
Is it bad to get into something with a guy who has just left a long term relationship?
11. May 2015
People who have left a long term relationship, are not always looking to jump straight into another. I would just be more cautious.
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