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My boyfriends job requires him to be away 5/7 days a week. When I met him he would cum in 3-5 minutes. Lately he’s been taking longer than 15 minutes and it worries me that he may be pursuing other women while he is up and down the country. Why is he not cumming as fast as he used to? Is it me?
13. July 2015
You need to figure out if you trust him instead of trying to do the maths on how long it takes him to climax.
Hiya Oloni, can this be a private question. The guy I was seeing on and off has given me an STD. I thought I was the only person he was seeing but he admitted to me that he had sex with 2 girls, I’d admit we were on and off at times. He seems sorry but I don’t know whether to forgive him and ever trust him again plz help
13. July 2015
A guy you were seeing has put you at risk, his apology should not be on your mind but going to the clinic and discussing safe and protective contraception.
Hey Oloni! Ive spoken to many guys however none of them seem to take me seriously? Im not sure why? Is it because of the type I tend to go for? I dont know but I want to meet someone kind and I have no clue where to start
13. July 2015
It’s either how you carry yourself that may be attracting the wrong guys, or you giving the wrong ones your attention.
Hey oloni! So I’ve been speaking to this guy for the last few months and we got to know each other pretty well. I started to fall for him which is rare for me and I asked him “what are we?” And he was like “I don’t know.. But I wouldn’t mind if you hooked up with other people” so that completely threw me off. I asked a few of my male friends and they said that if he doesn’t mind me hooking up with others then he probably is hooking up with other girls. Even after hearing from my friends I still find it hard not to talk to him :/. I also think he had/has a thing with one of his uni roommates because whenever he is there he doesn’t text me and tbh I feel like he is making me look so dumb 🙁
13. July 2015
He is seeing other people. If you feel like he’s making you look dumb, then leave.
Hey Oloni, well done on the success of your blog. My dilemma sounds twisted, but love can make you follow through with some things. I’m getting married next fall and I know my husband to be wants kids. Three actually, we dated for 3 years but I’ve been keeping the secret of be able to bear children. I found out when I was 23 after an illness. I have no idea what I should do. The truth will make him leave
10. July 2015
You can’t marry him knowing this. At least give him the chance to fairly say the words I do. Women all over the world are in happy marriages, who have adopted or fostered a child.
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