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Hi Oloni, the guy I am seeing currently did something I found really rude and disrespectful towards me and towards our relationship. Although we are not official, I had a discussion with him and I let him know about how I felt about his actions and he still kept on asking me why I had a problem with it. my issue now is that, he is not trying to see or understand what he did was wrong. Do I stop seeing him cos I feel like he has no respect for my feelings or am I thinking way too deep?
23. July 2015
You have to be more specific, but if you’re not seeing eye to eye right now, you might as well call it a day
Hey oloni, my hook up has recently started to act very very caring , why ? I don’t know. He recently did a few things he would never do , I like it a lot but I don’t know how to take it anymore lol is it an act ? Or is ones pum pum just simply turnt up?
23. July 2015
Who knows it might just be the latter! Talk to him and ask what’s up before you start getting emotionally attached.
Hi oloni, as a girlfriend I feel like I’m starting to have hatred towards my boyfriend, the problem has nothing to do with cheating or anything. But I’m starting to feel like fwb i hardly see him as he’s always out, it’s been nearly a month now and nothing has been said about seeing each other until I mentioned it which happens a lot of time. I just hate the way he makes me feel and it’s turning into hate but I really do like him at the same time. I tried speaking to him but he sees it as a joke and not that ” deep” I’m at the point where I just feel like I may not be the right person for him so I need to walk about. Would I be right and reasonable in doing so and what is ur take on this as another female please
23. July 2015
It sounds like you’re starting to resent him, because you expect more, as you should. If you’re the one who’s constantly bringing up the topic of when you’ll see each other next it’s understandable why you may feel annoyed. It’s supposed to work both ways, not just one. If you’re using words such as ‘hate’ perhaps this relationship is not for you any more.
My boyfriend complains that I don’t give him oral sex enough. Truthfully, I love to do it but he just has really bad hygiene and it bothers me. How do I tell him without being mean about it?
23. July 2015
You have to speak up and be honest about it. You’re in a relationship so the bond between you and your partner means it should easier to express how you feel. Help him sort out his hygiene by finding the right toiletries for him.
Hey Oloni my half brother met his girlfriend of two years through me. She’s actually my best friend, we’ve known each other for over 15 years. Here’s the dilemma I recently found out he’s been cheating on her and not with women Oloni.. Men. She can tell something is up but do I say anything? She’s like my sister.
21. July 2015
It sucks you’re in the middle of it all, but you do have to stay out of it, despite the closeness between you and your friend. What I will advise is that you speak to your brother because of this unfair position you’re placed in. What you don’t want is your friend planning a wedding one day, not knowing she’s dating someone who’s probably gay and disoyal. Speaking up to him gives him the chance to do the right thing.
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