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hi oloni I love your blog btw , my boyfriend recently found out he had an sti and he gave it to me and suddenly I accused of cheating which is the obvious reason since we were having unprotected sex for 8 months and when I got checked mid way through our relationship I was clean so.however he claims he did not cheat and probably got it before me as he was on and off with another girl and I was a virgin when I met him anyways.I don’t kno what to do now he did tell me that this would never happen again but should I leave him?
19. July 2015
He’s lying and refuses to take responsibility, STI’s don’t fall from the sky. Leave.
What forms of contraceptive won’t interrupt my periods or make me fat lol?
19. July 2015
Contraception doesn’t make you put on weight, your diet does, as a nurse once informed me. Go to your local clinic and get more information.
How long should you wait to ask ‘what are we’?
19. July 2015
I met this guy not long ago and he’s perfect. The thing is, he’s a virgin. I’m scared he might be inexperienced and sex is really deep to me. I don’t know whether I should continue dating him?
19. July 2015
We were all virgins once, give the dude a chance.
Hi Oloni, I’m a proud African British raised young woman ad I’ve always been attracted to white guys. I just got into a new relationship with a guy who is white and things are going really well. My question is how do I tell my parents that I’m in an Interracial relationship when they are very protective of our culture? I don’t want to hide my relationship from them especially as I always get the “Why don’t you have a Boyfriend?” question. Do you have any tips? Thanks.
19. July 2015
Well you’re British! So there was a chance you’d be with someone who doesn’t share the same complexion as yourself. Talk to either of your parents and speak to them about your preferences in the opposite sex. Remember to do whatever makes YOU happy.
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