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hi oloni, me and my bf had an argument like a week and half ago but I thought we sorted things out.The next day before he dropped me to train station(2hr long distance relationship)he wasn’t really talkative I asked what was up he said he just didn’t feel like talking so I didn’t push it.So I call him the next morning we talk everything seems ok. But now he’s stopped answering my calls and texts without any reason? I have no idea what’s going on its been nearly 2 weeks. Help?
25. June 2015
If he’s not answering your calls after two weeks he’s clocked out of the relationship without being vocal about it. If you know anyone close to him friend or relative, contact them, just to make sure he’s okay and that nothing crazy has happened.
Whilst having sex I got ridiculously wet like puddle wet so wet I wasn’t tight anymore he was literally swimming,this was the first time this has happened to me how do I stop myself from gettin so wet ?the sex is too good but I don’t want to always be squirting lol it’s embarrassing.
24. June 2015
This is very natural and common, be glad. It makes the sex better, so do not feel embarrassed. However, if you REALLY want to be less wet, try reducing the foreplay just before sex.
Hi Oloni, despite what our generation say about “girls cooking for you man/babes” is it actually a negative thing for a female friend/another woman to cook for your man?
23. June 2015
Depending on the nature of the friendship, it’s not really a big deal.
My ex and I broke up about two months ago but we still talk and see each other now and then. I know that I still have feelings for him but I think that he only wants to be friends because he always calls me “his friend”. However he will go out of his way to see me and flirt with me and say certain things to make it seem as if he likes me when we hangout. I’m just so confused because he is constantly sending mixed signals and it sucks because I really want him back.
23. June 2015
Then tell him.
Hi oloni. I’ve been in an on and off relationship with this guy did about 4 years now. We now have a baby together. However he has other children with other women. We try and stay away from each other but it just doesn’t work especially as he’s always over my house to see our child. I really love him and want our family to work. But there is so much chaos and drama between me and his other children’s mum, my friends etc. I feel like he’s resistant to being in a relationship with me because it’s not fair on the other mothers. Or he’s scared what people are gonna think about us getting back together. Do I try and work things through with him to have our family or just leave him and the drama and just raise our son without being together? It would be helpful if this could be QOTD.
23. June 2015
If all of these factors that you mentioned aren’t allowing your relationship to work out perhaps you need to re-think this properly. If you face drama with the other mothers of his children, have been on and off with him for four years, it’s very hard for me to paint the happy ever after you want. I think you should stick the the important things such as co-parenting. He has shown that he has a way of being irresponsible so try keep your mind on the importance of your raising your child.
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