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Hey, my boyfriend still talks to his ex and girls that use to like him. He tells me that his not gonna stop talking to his ex because she says she’s depressed and he had friendships with these people. They all know about but yes I’m insecure and i don’t know how to feel about it.
1. April 2020
If this doesn’t make you comfortable you can only do one thing. Take action of your position and leave the relationship. It’s nice that he’s helping someone with mental health issues, but what’s his excuse for the other women?
Oloni
I’ve just taken my very first vude. And it was in the shower (thanks SJ) if he doesn’t buy Louis Vuitton should I dump him?
24. March 2020
I think Scotty would approve.
Oloni
Hey Oloni! Firstly, I love laid bare podcast it’s so good, real and raw. I am a 18 yr old who enjoys sex way too much. Im with a partner who’s 23 , he’s very open about our sex life but my drive is way too high, sometimes I feel like I’m asking too much for it. I’m very new to sex toys since I’m constantly in the mood. Being so young and having the drive I have is normal orrrr? I been exposed to sex at very young age so I been pleasuring myself since literally I Was like 12. Please help what can I do about my intense high sex drive ?! Thanks a lot
23. March 2020
Hey, try getting a couple new sex toys so when he can’t fulfil your urges you’ve got a back up. I’d say try a wand.
Oloni
Hello Oloni, I’m in love with my best friend. He is now engaged and we have accepted that our friendship will not be the same. I have tried to distance myself, which only leads to me missing him. We both distanced but still end up lotioning. I cherish our friendship and want to enjoy it as much as possible before he gets married in September. At the same time, we both end up catching feelings and try to get rid of them. What should i do? I don’t lose my bestfriend yet..
23. March 2020
You both have a very unhealthy and SELFISH relationship. You need to protect yourself and end the friendship, as it sounds you’re already into deep. If he wanted to be with you, he wouldn’t have proposed to a whole other person.
Oloni
Hey Oloni, my bf has a 5yr old and his pictures of the child with the mum on his phone/ pictures together of when they went to events or outings. Is it wrong of me to ask him to delete them as they aren’t together. Is it necessary to keep?. Is it weird to ask your partner to delete old pictures or are there allowances for bbymums etc. Am I wrong to feel uncomfortable. Thank you in advance
23. March 2020
I don’t think you should be dating someone with a kid if this makes you uncomfortable. He has a family, it’s VERY normal for him to have photos with his child and the mother of his child in his phone and even on social media.
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