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Hey Oloni. So glad your site is back up!! So me and my ex broke up a year ago, we were just bad for eachother and seemed to bring out the worst in one another. It’s been a year of on and off contact, mainly started by him and then again ended by him. Recently he’s been really friendly, like more friend like than before, not just going straight in with the “wanna come round?”. I get the feeling he wants to see me again but is worried about things going back to how they were. I’ve honestly not moved on AT ALL and would drop anything for him still to this day which I hate so much but can’t help. Shall I try and suggest we meet up and see how things go?
6. February 2017
Noooo don’t go back. If you brought out the worst in each other ..the contact between you two should not exist. Honestly cut it off. Nothing positive will come from this unless you’re both masochists. Going back is okay for some, but not all.
Oloni
Hi Oloni , I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. Recently I went into his Instagram without asking. Now he said he wants the passwords to all of my social media or we are over for good. He also stepped out on me and had a baby in may 2016. Is the relationship worth saving or should I move on?
6. February 2017
He had a baby on you? Please let this dude go. You weren’t right for going through his social media, but a position like yours would make any woman insecure. His response to it however is insane. If you chose to stay, why would you stay to torture yourself?
Oloni
Hey Oloni! My boyfriend and I have been dating for about half a year now and we’ve never been out on a date night. I’ve suggested cinema, he’ll agree but it never happens. Valentine’s Day is approaching and I hate the thought that we’ll be staying indoors…
6. February 2017
You’ve been dating for 6 months and you haven’t been on a single date? Hun just book the cinema tickets on your phone and go to the cinema, the money you’ve both spent on tickets will inspire you to leave the house. Have a conversation with him and express how you feel.
Oloni
Hi oloni! Im so proud of everything you do
6. February 2017
Aww thanks.xx
Hi Oloni, I’ve been in a complicated relationship for over a year now (on and off) were always arguing and it doesnt help that i moved 200 miles away however he wants us to work out and be together. We had one off our break ups a few months back and i slept with some guy, i told him he was upset and told me not to do it again (i was single and ready to move on at this time) now were back together and he says he sees a future in our relationship but I slept with the guy again and i think i like the other guy even though his not my man but i dont want to lose my boyfriend that cares.. i feel guilty for wanting both
6. February 2017
Hun, why do you keep cheating? I’m so confused. You need to be on your own, because one relationship sounds dysfunctional and the other sounds like it’s just built off lust. Confess to your partner and just end this.
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