Hi oloni, I’ve been dating this guy for the past year and he is starting to make me feel uncomfortable. He always makes jokes saying he has another girlfriend and she is sexy blah blah. But when I get upset he says I should chill out that it’s only a joke. But this has been going on for a while now. He also makes negative comments about my weight I don’t know what to do anymore
25. January 2017
He sounds like an absolute douche. You explained you didn’t find his jokes funny before writing into me and he still continued… and wait.. he also throws jabs at your weight? You deserve so much better! I think the time you’ve spent getting to know this guy should end here.
Oloni
EVERYONE ELSE IS GETTING LAID
Hi! This guy I’ve been speaking to occasionally ghosts on me and doesnt communicate why he does this or even when. He just disappears. I’m trying to get to know him and let my guard down so we can become serious but this is a serious issue for me because I panic and assume hes done with me. I dont like it and I dont understand why. He could be busy with work or be dealing with some stuff mentally but the fact he doesnt talk about this bothers me. What should I do?
25. January 2017
Sis, he’s not that into you, your bother yourself by worrying about why he ghosts. Find someone new to date/get to know.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, I was eaten out by one of the strippers at chocolate city… now I’m scared my man might find out. What should I do? Should I jump the gun and tell him or leave it and hope he might not find out?
25. January 2017
Are they even allowed to do that? Smh. Let your boyfriend know and go from there.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, I don’t know if you’ve had this type of question before. I’m in a very happy relationship with my boyfriend. Everything is going so well. A few years back just before we got together I met a friend of his. She didn’t like me much in the beginning of course. I wasn’t too bothered by it. A few months back we bumped into eachother at an event, and mingled just as girls would. She admitted it wasn’t her initial choice to come off rude in the beginning she’s happy for her friend and can’t wait to see us get married etc… But recently I feel like she’s been making moves on me. Baring in mind she’s STRAIGHT but will ask me freaky questions about being with a girl. She’s always finding an excuse to touch me, even infront of my boyfriend. He sees it as we’re just being girls. She will suggest to go shopping and follow me into changing rooms and try to do inappropriate things but then just say she’s “joking” now I’m about to absolutely lose my marbles. I don’t know how to tell my boyfriend that his female friend is suggesting I leave him for her…
25. January 2017
Hey hun, thanks for writing in. You shouldn’t have to be made to feel uncomfortable by your boyfriends friend. It’s highly inappropriate and needs to be addressed asap. Speak to her and let her know it makes you feel uneasy. I would also suggest you spend less time with her and also explain what’s been happening to bf.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, I’ve been talking to this guy for the past 4 months now and I feel like we are at a standstill, we’ve never gone on a proper date ( which I don’t mind) but even suggesting it to him can cause argument. He says he likes me a lot but he doesn’t show me he does unless I’m physically with him. He barely messages me first & says that I shouldn’t tell people we talk even though people know we do already & I personally don’t talk about my business like that but it’s just the fact he told me that has got me thinking somehow. What should I do I’ve tried talking to him about it but it always leads to an arguement
21. January 2017
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