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Hello oloni, I’ve never told any of my girlfriends but I’m into cuckolding something about my partner getting pleasure and not caring about me excites me but my problem is I’ve never told any of them the ones that have cheated I played dumb like I didn’t know but subtly helped them like paid for her holiday or pay for all of her nights out I always wanted to tell them that it turns me on but always felt like they would all get put off me how can I bring it up?
13. May 2022
Have a conversation about fantasises! It’s the best way to set the tone and reveal another side of you. Ask if they have Any fantasies of their own and start off with something a bit light, continue exchanging till you’re comfortable to explain what you’ve just told me. Good luck!
Oloni
Hi Oloni, I’ve been having threesomes with a friend and his girlfriend for over a year and lately they’ve been in a bad place, however he still wishes for us to continue with our arrangement. Only issue is, he doesn’t pay her much attention during the deed and most of his focus is on me which puts me in an awkward place. Not sure what to do.
13. May 2022
I think you wrote in because you know it feels wrong and possibly uncomfortable. If him and his girlfriend are having issues and he’s making you the primary care during a threesome, ask yourself if this is a mess you want to be involved in. It also sounds like you might actually like him. I say stop having group sex until you know everyone is good and stable and there isn’t any awkwardness.
Oloni
I met this yoruba man on ig few
13. May 2022
Just forget him
Hey Oloni. I’ve been seeing a guy I met off a dating app for nearly a year and have never seen him outside. When he met me I was in a state and agreed to go over to his without a date. We’ve been seeing each other since and we only ever hook up at his. I love casual sex but I’ve never had a FWB or fuck buddy who wouldn’t go outside and it’s starting to make me feel like it’s about me. I’ve brought it up and he chuckled it off. Would you see a guy like this?
13. May 2022
You don’t seem like you have a say in this set up, it just feels like you’re going with the flow. If you want more, stop seeing him and wasting your time. No I wouldn’t continue to spend time with him and you shouldn’t either.
Oloni
Hi Oloni. Im a FWB situation, and in this FWB we had a brief conversation about safe sex can came to an agreement that we would have sex without condoms as long as we had sex with condoms with others. At the time neither of us were having sex with other people. He recently informed me he’s having sex with someone new, who he does fuck with condoms and he disclosed he also eats her out. When I asked if he knows when/if she has gotten tested he said no and that’s he’s shy to ask her. He trusts that everything is fine because the new person he having sex with apparently just came out of a long-term relationship and I presume hasn’t had any new sexual partners. I am uncomfortable about the idea of my FWB eating me out and kissing me without knowing her sexual history/testing because of the possibility of things being transferred orally. Am I being irrational.
13. May 2022
We answer this on the latest episode of laid bare out on Tuesday!
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