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Hi Oloni, so a guya cheated on his gf with me. I knew his gf but at the time I didn’t know he was her boyfriend and I found out a month into seeing him and went to her as a woman. Long story short, ended it with him, they’re still together and I’m not over him. 15. April 2022

This feels like a confessional.. well I mean it is. What I will say is that, that’s it’s not uncommon and that her decision shouldn’t bother you.

Oloni

Hey Oloni, my boyfriend got a new job after being unemployed for 6 months. I’m happy, but I’m pissed off cus he told me his ex also works there too. I trust him even though he has only cheated on me once, it’s his ex I don’t like as she’s tried some shit in the past. Is it wrong of me to suggest he gets a new job or should I just watch him extra hard? 15. April 2022

Yikes – Did he not know she worked there before he applied? Your focus should also be on him if he’s been unfaithful in the past. I think you should let him know how you feel and have a conversation. This is such a tricky one, but you know your man, if he’s a cheater it won’t just be his ex at his work place you’ll have to worry about, it’ll be someone he meets at a bar, a girl on IG.etc

Oloni

Hey Oloni! I have recently been more sexually active after getting me life together, (good job and fitness) as a result I find myself more sexually active. However my friends say that some of the men I go for are not on my level and aren’t good enough looking. Am I ‘loose’ for not placing a great deal of importance on these things? I feel like in this age looks and money are put on a really high pedal stool. 15. April 2022

Your friend sound like some HATERS! LOL wow. Listen, as long as you’re having fun, being respected, sexually satisfied and safe.. that’s all that matters! They sound a lil jealous too. Keep your vagina diaries limited when sharing with your “friends” or find some new friends.

Oloni

Hi Oloni. My husband of 5 years (been with him for 9 years) has recently cheated on me for the 2nd time. The first time was when our daughter was 4 months old (3 years ago) and he had a whole affair. I somehow managed to get through it and try and forgive him. I thought things were good with us, but recently I found out he kissed a young girl (he’s a bus driver) he met on the road. He says his friend encouraged him and it was all a game, and I tried to leave – he begged and cried to me etc. I told him I haven’t forgiven him and I told him we need marriage counselling, and he agreed. I just sometimes think if I’m a fool to still be with him, thinking of future plans like having a second child when he isn’t loyal to me and his head is easily turned the other day. I sometimes resent him so much. 15. April 2022

Omg I’m sorry you’re experiencing all of this but I honestly think you need to leave this man immediately. He doesn’t respect you or the family you have. Someone like this doesn’t change over night. You should really consider therapy for yourself because I can’t imagine the trauma you’re dealing with. Do not let his tears stop you from putting you and your child first, he didn’t.

Oloni

Hi Oloni, can there be a positive side to love bombing? 28. March 2022

Honestly I don’t know but I think time would tell, just be careful.

Oloni

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