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Two months seems a bit too soon to start proposing. Why don’t you give him a bit of space, and if you still feel the same call him and see if you discuss what went wrong. If he still wants to be friends, it’s then up to you to accept his offer or walk away from it, none of this can be forced, that means engagement and friendship. Oloni Heya hun, why don’t you look for an appropriate time to start a conversation with him at work? I think once you do that, you’ll have created a foundation to either add each other on social media, then work your way to phone numbers. Oloni Heya hun, you can’t help how you feel, but I think you should question why. You probably could have trust issues, you might also just think it’s inappropriate. Could he really not live with other men? What woman really wants her boyfriend living with two other ladies? Have a conversation with him and tell him what you’re feeling. Oloni Hey hun, oh wow! Okay first things first, give him more time and let him call/text you, you don’t want to be that bugga boo ex. I’m sure he’s seen all your missed calls etc. If he does give you a chance to explain yourself, tell him how you feel and also let him know that you did sleep with someone else. It sounds like, what you’re searching for in your new relationship with him is honesty, so it’d be incredibly cheeky if you left that out, especially as you want him back. Hey hun! Just be patient, when the time is right you’ll lose your virginity. Make sure you’re educated on safe sex in terms of contraception. Now we’re done with the boring stuff, focus on meeting new guys to develop a relationship. I don’t mean boyfriend/girlfriend btw, but instead someone who makes you comfortable sexually. There are several ways you can meet guys also, so through a friend of a friend, dating apps, social media etc. Do keep me updated and let me know how everything works out. Oloni
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