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Hi oloni hope you’re well. Basically I met this guy online and he’s soooo hot basically way out of my league 😭 He wants to meet up but I’m scared he’s going to be disappointed. I have a son and my body isn’t exactly how I want it to be right now. My pics clearly show that I’m not exactly small, but let’s just say they’re quite flattering pictures (we all know our angles right?) it’s just my first time meeting up with someone since I had my son and I’m really nervous. I know it’s probably not a biggie but I just feel like I’ve lost my confidence a bit.. What do I do? What if he comes here and says I’m ugly and leaves?! 😂😂 I’m sure all girls feel like this to a certain extent but When I think about meeting up with him I just bottle it. But I don’t want to not see him cos he is fiiiiine 😂 Help me please x 21. April 2017

Hey darling! This just sounds like an occasion to basically look your best. We all have insecurities and a lot of people who have met someone online, will tell you they’ve had a similar fear. Just relax, as I’m sure he’s probably nervous too. Make sure you give me an update!

Oloni


Oloni, I’ve been with my bf for a long time. We’ve never really had any issues and we get on really well. Recently he’s been texting this girl, I read a few of the messages (which I hate doing) and it’s just constant all day everyday even whilst he’s with me (we live together so spend a lot of time with each other). I am constantly seeing her name flash up on his phone and he’s been acting really shady about it, she’s really flirty over text saying she wants to get to know him more and he’s not saying no. I want to confront him but don’t want him to know I’ve gone through his messages. I’m so upset about the situation, what do I do? 21. April 2017

Tell him what you saw. You can’t pretend you haven’t seen the messages. Just let him know and explain how you dislike it. Yes, you shouldn’t have gone through his phone, but he shouldn’t be entertaining women who are flirting with him.

Oloni



So I’m gunna try & make this short & sweet. I want to know how many your opinion on how many coworkers is it okay to sleep with within the same company? It’s a small business company with about 30 18. April 2017

Lol whatever you deem is acceptable just be safe.

Oloni


Hi Oloni, me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months and every 2 weeks or so we argue and don’t talk to each other for 2 or 3 days, he always goes in a mood with me when i interact with men on the tl or mention another guys name it honestly makes me feel like shit and i cry myself to sleep sometimes over it, what should i do? is it worth staying in this relationship? what can i do to stop this petty arguing? 17. April 2017

Sis, just leave.

Oloni


Hi Oloni, I’ve been unofficially dating this guy for 3 months and we’ve been having sex during that period. I just found out that I’m pregnant, I told him and he had been really cold since. He said he isn’t ready for a baby and baby drama and basically wants me to get rid of it. I really don’t know what to do about this issue though because while I want to keep it, I feel so alone right now and I don’t want to deal with baby daddy drama for the rest of my life as he really doesn’t want anything to do with me again. Please I need some good advice. 17. April 2017

Hey hun, thanks for taking your time to write into me. It’s important that you find someone close you can also talk to about this. So perhaps a sister, a good friend or an aunt? It’s clear how he feels towards this new situation, so right now I think it’s best you think about yourself and your pregnancy. No one can tell you what to do with your body, just make sure you’ve had a good think about your options. If you know that you want to keep your pregnancy, then do so. I think it’s best you also meet with a nurse who can also guide you when making a final decision.

Oloni


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