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Hi Oloni, I need you asap girl. I rushed into something with a girl I really really REALLY liked and as expected it didn’t work out. I got the ‘hey b, you’re amazing but let’s cut it off” message today. I’m one of those girls who overthinks everything, i didn’t want to come across as a wreck or desperate so I played it cool in my reply, i said i understood her reasons ect, in terms of my feelings i said i was gutted and that was it. This is where i could use your help. I’m not experienced in relationships but i’d like to think i’ve seen enough (and watched enough catfish eps) in my life to have formed a decent enough understanding on how not to act desperate, BUT there are somethings i really want to tell her. I’ve already constructed the message i’m just scared of the repercussions. We ended the message saying she loved to be my friend which honestly would mean a lot to me but i can’t help but think it’s become common courtesy to say that without actually meaning it. I want to express my feelings properly with hope of another shot with her in the future but not at the expense of a friendship, if she means it. Should I send the message? 8. May 2017

Hey love, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with letting her know that if she’s ever open to trying again, you’d be interested. There’s power in communication, go for it, just don’t over do it.

Oloni


Hey Oloni, so me and this guy have been “seeing” each other – sleeping together with the agreement neither of us sleeps with someone else. But at the same time he’s speaking to god knows how many girls. I think it’s fair to say I’ve fallen in love with him because of who he is under this ‘savage’ persona, but we wouldn’t ever work in a relationship – he’s made this very clear. Yet I’m willing to sit back and be his fuck buddy if it means I can have him in my life. Please help I feel so lost! 8. May 2017

Hey hun, I think it’d be best if you stop sleeping with him as this won’t turn out good. That’s the only answer I have for you.

Oloni

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Hi oloni, I’ve been going out with my boyfriend for 2 months. So my period came earlier than expected. I slept over my boyfriends house and I got his sheets and his dressing gown covered in some blood. When he saw it he was really annoyed and we had a little argument over it and I told him to get over it because he has another gown and I’ll buy him new sheets. He then told me His dressing gown is the last thing his mother gave him before she passed couple months ago. And now I feel so bad because whenever he’s at home literally that’s all he wears. I’m freaking out because the stain is really strong and covers a large area and won’t come out. What do you think I should do/ how can I make it upto him? 8. May 2017

Hey darling, these things happen. You can’t control something which is very natural an you certainly shouldn’t be arguing about it. Although I understand where his frustration is coming from, the best thing to do is to take it to a dry cleaner.

Oloni


What’s up oloni, I’ve been following you for a while & would love to get your opinion. I am a man & 23 year old virgin. Reason why I haven’t sex yet is because I was sick at a younger age & didn’t go through puberty until after high school(probably 20). I’m really not embarrassed about being a virgin but of my situation but my problem is my penis size. I’m about 6 in on hard(“so called” average) I’m insecure about. With my size be compromised by my health. Do you think I’ll ever find a girl to accept me? 8. May 2017

Hey thank you for following me Mr! I really appreciate it. You honestly have nothing to worry about and you will find a woman who will accept you. It’s important to remember that we all have our own insecurities so the best thing you can do is try to find your confidence.

Oloni


Hi Oloni, I’m the girl that sent in the question about messing up the bedsheets! Your answer was so simple that it made me feel silly loool but better at the same time. I was just worried because I never used to be like this until of recent and the guy I’m sleeping with is always amazed by it so it just seemed like he’s never seen it before (and he’s slept with A LOT of girls lol). But thank you for reassuring me. You’ve definitely encouraged me to continue enjoying my sex life and climaxing to the maxxxxxx. Wooo!! 8. May 2017

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