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Ask me sex and relationship questions here anonymously. Please make questions as *brief* as possible to make sure you get a response. Please be aware that some dilemmas may be posted on social media platforms and cannot be removed on there or Ask Oloni once submitted. Not all questions sent can be answered due to the high amount received daily. For a QUICK response book a private call here

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Is it normal for my boyfriends search history on Facebook and Instagram to be full of attractive women he knows and associates with often? 2. June 2017

Questionable.. talk to him.

I really want to come to your show although I do not want to any photos taken to be put up on twitter or your website or anywhere else. Nothing against you!! I frequently follow your website and I’ve written in and you’ve answered. Huge thanks and appreciation for that. It’s just I work high up in a big organisation for vulnerable children and young people therefore many people (within that sector/ clients themselves/ parents, carers etc.) recognise me by face. I know being sex positive is nothing to be ashamed of, however unfortunately it does not fit in with ‘our values’. A couple of years ago a colleague was fired and another was given a written warning for their posts and comments on Facebook. They walked into a meeting with their Facebook pages all printed out and laid on the table. I do not want that to be me… thank you! 2. June 2017

Once again! Sorry for this late response. Photos are taken to help market our sponsors and my brand. However in the future I will definitely think about creating a more discreet event for sex positive people. I totally understand where you’re coming from so thanks for writing in. Check out Scarlet ladies btw! Theyre an amazing sex posi brand, that host private sex discussions.

Oloni

How long is too long to wait for a title? We’ve been seeing each other for a year, and we’ve developed an amazing relationship. He’s like my best friend with amazing benefits 🙂 However I want to know if this is all we will ever be or more. 2. June 2017

A year? Oh nono sis, what is you doing? If you’d like a relationship with him. Communicate this.

Oloni

Hey girl! Laid bare was so much fun last night and the topic of masturbating made me think. I HAVE watch porn when i masturbate, I have done for a really long time now and i can’t seem to orgasm when I don’t. Do you have any advice/tips, it would really help! thanks xx 2. June 2017

Thanks for coming! Pun intended 😉 also apologies for responding now..

Right.. I’d suggest practicing and usung your imagination. Allow yourself to be turned on, don’t rush into it by whipping out your new vibrator. Play with your body.. make love to YOURSELF.. ease into masturbating.

It won’t get you off as quickly as porn, but what’s the rush? Get to know your body and try to discover new erogenous zones.

Oloni

How much should you tell a new boyfriend about your old relationships? And what is reasonable to ask and what would be them crossing the boundary?? 2. June 2017

Tell whatever you’re comfortable telling… BUT .. do it over a period of time. Don’t tell him on the first date how many times your ex cheated on you or when you cheated on your ex. Be patient! It also depends on the seriousness of the past relationships.

Oloni

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