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Hi Oloni. Recently my fuck buddy’s younger sister has come back to his house to visit and stay for 2 weeks. She’s been here 4 days now and he has been giving her quite a bit of attention, he’s splitting mine and her attention 50/50 (which I’m not used to). Since she’s come, he’s spent lots of money on her and hardly any on me and I’m getting jealous. Is it bad that when he’s eating my pussy, I kinda want her to walk in and see that I run him, he’s mine, not hers… I’ve been cumming to the thought of that since she’s been here, is that bad?! 7. July 2017

Quite odd.. especially since he’s your fuck buddy. You’re way too invested into him emotionally.

Oloni

Hi Oloni. So Ive been speaking to this guy for 3 months now and we both have feelings for each other. We haven’t really rushed anything, everythings mutual. Ive met his friends and parents and so has he. However, due to my last relationship (he cheated) i find it so hard to trust him & it sucks cause im always thinking he’s up to no good, when he’s given me all reasons not to think that. Please could u give any advice possible x 7. July 2017

Heya, just take things slowly with the new guy. Sometimes when we allow a new experience into our lives we learn to open up.

Oloni

What do you say to an ex trying to come back acknowledging he’s done wrong and apologising basically I was pregnant and then lost it but he was never there so after that I left it I think that was the last straw for me now he’s saying he’s sorry and I’m considering taking him back but I dunno 22. June 2017

I don’t know the ins and the outs of your whole relationship, but how do you leave someone when they’re in that position? I feel like he’s doing this out of guilt. He feels bad and is basically doing this for himself.

I could be wrong, so I’m hoping that as someone who actually knows this dude.. you make a wise decision.

I’m also really sorry to hear about what you went through! ❤️

Oloni

My girlfriend doesn’t find herself attractive and thinks i’m lying when I tell her she’s the apple of my eye and my world, well not lying but she doesn’t take it seriously, we spoke about it and I found out that its due to past relationships the guy was generally unfaithful which caused her to question whether if it was because she was unattractive, I think she’s the most beautiful girl I know, how do I get her to se what I see? 22. June 2017

I think it’s beautiful you’ve come to me for advice on how to build up your girlfriends confidence.

First thing I will say is to be patient, her self esteem and confidence issues can’t be worked on over night. As her boyfriend continue speaking life into her in various ways. Tell your girlfriend what you find beautiful about her and not the typical ‘i love your smile’ lol! Although that is sweet, express something she probably thinks you’ve never noticed before.

Talk about how beautiful her personality is too! It’s important that you let her understand that it’s what’s inside that matters most.

Go on planned/surprised dates, listen to her.. show her you appreciate her.

Oloni

I’m basically dating this guy for 2 years now he’s a great person, but im also sleeping with this other guy. My boyfriend gave me one freebie to sleep with him cause i had unfinished business with him and I’ve told my boyfriend I’m in a open relationship although i don’t think he’s serious. He knew about the first time I slept with him, but he doesn’t know i still do it. The guy is basically my fuck buddy. I’m not saying my bf isn’t enough for me cause he can put it down in the bedroom…i don’t wtf is wrong with me. 22. June 2017

You clearly like sexually exploring with more with the other guy. Perhaps you should try teaching your actual boyfriend what you like and desire innthe bedroom. It’s very common to be sexually compatible with someone and not totally there with another..

Oloni

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