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Hi Oloni. I’ve been seeing my partner for quite some time now, when it comes to us everything is great but his ex/babymum moves crazy! Making threats, telling people he’s her man, calling me a home wrecker, side, stalking my social media, even my house, you name it she’s done it… strange girl. Although this is starting to get on my last nerve he just tells me she’s that way in kind and he cannot help how she feels/acts, that she’s still hung up on him but is adamant it has been over since before he met me. I’m beginning to become VERY paranoid and wondering if she is just acting like this due to feeling hurt/being a physco baby mum or… if he is pulling cotton wool over my eyes and still entertaining her. I cannot stress how much this is hurting my head lol help! 3. August 2017

He could be entertaining her but at the same time, he might not be.. either way, this all so messy and no relationship is worth it.

Advice? Why not ask him to set up a meeting with the both of you present, so you can have a conversation about the lies she’s spreading.

She’s the mother of his child, so she’ll always be part of his life. If he doesn’t agree to all three of you meeting up, he could possibly be hiding something.

Oloni


Hey Oloni! Okay so recently Ive been intrigued by vibrators. They seem like they would take my sex life to a different level. The issue is that my boyfriend of 3 years is against it. He thinks that since I want one, i dont want him any more. How can I make him understand that sex toys aren’t bad? 3. August 2017

You educate him! Sex toys don’t replace the guy, it compliments him. It literally makes intimacy much more pleasurable, especially during foreplay.

Oloni


Hi Oloni, first of all I LOVE you and me and my boyfriend scroll this all the time haha! Second of all when are more hergasms being released? 3. August 2017

Hey love! Thank you 🙂 working on some products. Look out for it x


Hey babe hope you are having a great fruitful morning thus far. I just wanted to ask you a question anonymously. How can I politely tell my boyfriends “friend” who has told him she had questioned what could have been if they got together.. To fuck off without loosing my shit. Iv spoke to my boyfriend about it and he assures me I have nothing to worry about and that he would never go near her especially because she was dating his bestfriend for soo long. But this girl doesn’t understand boundaries and stays calling at inappropriate times and also make slick comments knowing I’m there. 3. August 2017

He needs to cut her off. Communicate that their friendship HAS to end because she’s been inappropriate on several occasions. If he doesn’t understand or refuses to get rid of her, he’s keeping her there for a back up… even if it isn’t a relationship.

Oloni


Hi Oloni, I just found out on Facebook that my boyfriend of five years got married on Saturday in Africa. He has been away for two weeks and I definitely didn’t see this coming cause we talk everyday. I am so angry and hurt. I did a lot for him, I even sent him money yesterday smh. I feel like committing murder. How do I move on from this and let go if the anger and the pain 3. August 2017

Believe me when I say I am incredibly sorry about what you’re going through. No one deserves to experience this type of hurt. You deserve an explanation, because who in their right mind does this? He sounds ill.

I’ll tell you one thing though, thank your lucky stars, it weren’t you he married. You dodged a big one and it nay not seem like it now.. but it will eventually. He’s obviously and quite clearly a fraud and not someone who deserves your loyalty.

Try looking for a good friend to speak to and keep yourself around those who love you such as family for example.

Please don’t seek retribution in any way, as men are never worth it.

I’d also suggest seeking professional help, like seeing a therapist

Oloni


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