Hi Oloni I need your help. Help a guy this time? I love my ex. I’ve broken up with her and after the third time she said she was done. I understand her side but I just don’t get how if it’s love something this small would be a deal breaker it just doesn’t make sense to me. I’ve been under massive amounts of stress and I know I haven’t treated her good, haven’t treated her the way she deserves to be. She has changed my life monumentally and I do not want to lose her. How can I get her back, I’ve gotten my stress under control and I understand I cannot be impulsive. I’m scared. I love her. Help ?
3. August 2017
Heya! Thanks for writing in. I think you should give her some space and if you still feel the same try calling.. not texting… calling, then explain to her what you explained to me. Perhaps ask to meet up even?
If it’s meant to be, it’ll be.
Good luck
oloni
Hi Oloni. I’ve been seeing my partner for quite some time now, when it comes to us everything is great but his ex/babymum moves crazy! Making threats, telling people he’s her man, calling me a home wrecker, side, stalking my social media, even my house, you name it she’s done it… strange girl. Although this is starting to get on my last nerve he just tells me she’s that way in kind and he cannot help how she feels/acts, that she’s still hung up on him but is adamant it has been over since before he met me. I’m beginning to become VERY paranoid and wondering if she is just acting like this due to feeling hurt/being a physco baby mum or… if he is pulling cotton wool over my eyes and still entertaining her. I cannot stress how much this is hurting my head lol help!
3. August 2017
He could be entertaining her but at the same time, he might not be.. either way, this all so messy and no relationship is worth it.
Advice? Why not ask him to set up a meeting with the both of you present, so you can have a conversation about the lies she’s spreading.
She’s the mother of his child, so she’ll always be part of his life. If he doesn’t agree to all three of you meeting up, he could possibly be hiding something.
Oloni
Hey Oloni! Okay so recently Ive been intrigued by vibrators. They seem like they would take my sex life to a different level. The issue is that my boyfriend of 3 years is against it. He thinks that since I want one, i dont want him any more. How can I make him understand that sex toys aren’t bad?
3. August 2017
You educate him! Sex toys don’t replace the guy, it compliments him. It literally makes intimacy much more pleasurable, especially during foreplay.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, first of all I LOVE you and me and my boyfriend scroll this all the time haha! Second of all when are more hergasms being released?
3. August 2017
Hey love! Thank you 🙂 working on some products. Look out for it x
Hey babe hope you are having a great fruitful morning thus far. I just wanted to ask you a question anonymously. How can I politely tell my boyfriends “friend” who has told him she had questioned what could have been if they got together.. To fuck off without loosing my shit. Iv spoke to my boyfriend about it and he assures me I have nothing to worry about and that he would never go near her especially because she was dating his bestfriend for soo long. But this girl doesn’t understand boundaries and stays calling at inappropriate times and also make slick comments knowing I’m there.
3. August 2017
He needs to cut her off. Communicate that their friendship HAS to end because she’s been inappropriate on several occasions. If he doesn’t understand or refuses to get rid of her, he’s keeping her there for a back up… even if it isn’t a relationship.
Oloni
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