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Hi Oloni, I’m going to surprise my man… with a lie detector test just because i want to know that the person I’m with is trustworthy. My friends are saying it’s crazy but idc I’d rather be crazy than be with a liar. Is it too much?
5. February 2018
Yes, way too much. Lie detector for what? Are you Maury?
Oloni
Hey Oloni, i found out my boyfriend stayed at his ex’s house after lying to me that he stayed at his boys house. After coming to him with what i found, he owned up and said he went to ‘talk’ and ended up accidentally staying. He has promised me nothing happened. Do i believe him?
5. February 2018
No, you don’t.
Hi Oloni, I’ve been having sex for about 4 years now and never been able to cum (I feel like I need to pee) I’m not sure if I’m a squirted either because I just go toilet. I’m looking to buy my first toy so I can explore myself and hopefully make myself cum. What’s the best thing to get for your first toy? A vibrator or a rabbit? Also how do I know I’m a squirter? :/
5. February 2018
So whilst on FT to my long distance boyfriend of 6 months, after discussing Kevin Hart’s infidelity, he revealed to me that he has cheated on 3 of his previous relationships. We’ve talked about a future together settling down and whatnot, but as a girl who has been cheated on (not by him as far as I’m aware) and comes from a broken home caused by cheating, I know full well the damage it causes. It’s definitely made me question whether I know this man at all. Do I simply leave his misdemeanours in previous relationships in the past, and move on in our relationship? Or do I tread more carefully with him?
5. February 2018
I don’t want to tell you what to do, but three relationships and he cheated on them ALL and you’re in a long term commitment? All I’ll say is be wise and take things extra slowly. Try not to wear your heart on your sleeves.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, I have had sex with 204 women (since I’ve been counting). I know because me and the guys used to have competitions on who can have sex with the most girls in a year – and we have to send pictures/video for evidence – no picture/video it don’t count. I won 2 years in a row. I have banged a group of friends. 4-5 girls all living in the same shared house. I think they recommended me to each other but that’s another story. One year I have sex with 87 women and I was not really trying, in fact, I don’t know how it got to the sex situation with most of them but it did lol I am just telling you because I haven’t spoken to any one about it in years and just needed to get this shit off my chest. I alway wore a condom. In fact women used to beg me not to wear one a lot of the time and that’s when I made sure I wore a condom most definitely. I have been in a happy relationship for over 3 years and never discussed bodies with my partner. I have never cheated on them – which is strange for me because I never cared about my past relationships like this. Should I tell them my past? Or is it my burden to carry. Maybe the souls of the many have finally captured and weighted me down. Advice please
3. February 2018
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