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Hi Oloni, here is my dilemma – I am getting married in just under 4 weeks and my brother is refusing to attend. My brother cheated on his ex girlfriend who has been apart of our family for 7 years and who happens to be my maid of honour, best friend and obviously hugely apart of the wedding and ceremony. I wouldn’t want to do this without her by my side, she is also God mother to my son. The issue is, my brother wants to bring the girl he cheated on he’s ex girlfriend with to MY wedding and I refuse to have her at my wedding? He is claiming I am being overly dramatic and selfish?? Am I justified in not allowing her to attend my special day? It is also very last minute as everyone has RSPV’d and arrangements have already been made.
8. February 2018
Your brother is insane and is really the selfish one. He has no business inviting people you don’t want there. This isn’t love and hip hop the reunion, for him to invite such a guest. If they were married…just maybe. But girlfriend? No. It’s your wedding. If he wants to risk missing it for his silly new girlfriend, them honestly leave him to it.
Oloni
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Hi Oloni, I’m going to surprise my man… with a lie detector test just because i want to know that the person I’m with is trustworthy. My friends are saying it’s crazy but idc I’d rather be crazy than be with a liar. Is it too much?
5. February 2018
Yes, way too much. Lie detector for what? Are you Maury?
Oloni
Hey Oloni, i found out my boyfriend stayed at his ex’s house after lying to me that he stayed at his boys house. After coming to him with what i found, he owned up and said he went to ‘talk’ and ended up accidentally staying. He has promised me nothing happened. Do i believe him?
5. February 2018
No, you don’t.
Hi Oloni, I’ve been having sex for about 4 years now and never been able to cum (I feel like I need to pee) I’m not sure if I’m a squirted either because I just go toilet. I’m looking to buy my first toy so I can explore myself and hopefully make myself cum. What’s the best thing to get for your first toy? A vibrator or a rabbit? Also how do I know I’m a squirter? :/
5. February 2018
So whilst on FT to my long distance boyfriend of 6 months, after discussing Kevin Hart’s infidelity, he revealed to me that he has cheated on 3 of his previous relationships. We’ve talked about a future together settling down and whatnot, but as a girl who has been cheated on (not by him as far as I’m aware) and comes from a broken home caused by cheating, I know full well the damage it causes. It’s definitely made me question whether I know this man at all. Do I simply leave his misdemeanours in previous relationships in the past, and move on in our relationship? Or do I tread more carefully with him?
5. February 2018
I don’t want to tell you what to do, but three relationships and he cheated on them ALL and you’re in a long term commitment? All I’ll say is be wise and take things extra slowly. Try not to wear your heart on your sleeves.
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