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So I love masturbating, I admit it I can’t lie. It feels so good, but when I was talking to a friend who is a Christian she kept telling me I was going to hell, now I’m torn between do I rub the clit and have a great time or refrain from doing it because boi hell must be maddddd hot
16. February 2018
Lol! woah. I might be wrong but I’ve never heard of the bible talk about masturbation. Your friend looking down on you, is forgetting that masturbating is very healthy and natural. Self pleasure in life is generally important in my opinion.
Oloni
Hey Oloni.. So we’re a group of three female best friends and one of them got married last weekend… Thing is the other best friend in the group planned her engagement announcement on the wedding day…I warned her that she shouldn’t do it on our friends special day unless she also agrees to it but she insisted that she keeps it a surprise for everyone but anyway at last she said she’d talk to her …so she announced it by planning a whole acted up proposal to announce that she’s engaged… My other best friend was mad because she wasn’t notified about this after all and after the wedding we sat down and the friend who got proposed to called the other friend selfish for not sharing her special day… I believe the married friend is in the right here and the other one is in the wrong since she did something like that without making sure the bride and groom are ok too… Soooo who’s in the wrong after all??
16. February 2018
You’re right, the one who decided to share her proposal on your friends wedding day is in the wrong. What an asshole. She’s a very selfish friend.
Oloni
Hey Oloni, I’m a 27 year old girl. I was with my boyfriend for just over a year and I only actually came when we had a sex not very often. He made me feel really bad for it because apparently “other girls aren’t this difficult to make cum”. At first I thought it was just him being really bad at sex but when we broke up and I started seeing other people I’ve been having the same problem. Is there something wrong with me? Do you have any advice?
16. February 2018
Your ex is a twat who was probably lied to by other women. There’s nothing wrong with you. Annoyingly, women do not climax as easily as men. In fact, there’s been studies which show 75 percent of women don’t orgasm through vaginal penetration alone. Try to understand your body so you can teach future partners how to.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, so for Valentine’s Day my boyfriend didn’t want to see me, he told me February he doesn’t really wanna see me we’ve spent a lot of time together in previous months. Valentine’s Day comes and he genuinely did nothing, sent a text but he’d rather go out with his friends than spend the day with me. Also one of his ex’s has been posting pictures on snap throw back saying she misses this and also her curious cat is full of questions about them, I don’t think he’s cheating I have all his passwords a thoroughly check but I do feel like he’s losing interest it’s come to the point where I feel like I give him sex just so he stays rather than straying or being unfaithful, I don’t know what I should do please help?
16. February 2018
Hey love sex will never make a man stay, but what you should do is have a conversation with him and explain how you’ve been feeling. Your needs deserve to be met, especially if they’re reasonable.
Oloni
Been chatting to this lady. We get on well. Been on a few dates. I have an issue though. Sometimes I call her and she doesn’t answer, or call back. So I feel as though it’s more effort from my part than hers. Don’t wanna force it, plus it’s still early days (few months) and very platonic. It’s annoying. My head tells me she’s getting dicked down elsewhere. My heart tells me she’s just taking things slow and being cautious. Oloni, any advice?
12. February 2018
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