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I am still afraid of initiating sex sometimes, what helps you not be weird about it? 15. November 2024

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My bf and I both agreed to wait so we were each others firsts. But a few weeks after we slept together i found out I have genital warts. I was completely shocked, but now he thinks I lied about being a virgin and that I must’ve been with someone else. I swear he’s the only person I’ve been with but he’s convinced I’m hiding something and won’t believe it can happen any other way. Is there any way to prove I’m telling the truth, or is this relationship over? 10. November 2024

Hey girl, sorry you’re dealing with this. Just know, genital warts don’t always mean someone’s lying or unfaithful. HPV can be passed through skin to skin contact and sometimes shows up long after exposure. So yes, it’s possible to get it without multiple partners.

If your boyfriend can’t trust you on this or refuses to educate himself, that says a lot. Your body and health shouldn’t be used against you. Maybe he needs to do some research!! OR maybe it’s time to ask if he’s someone who deserves your honesty.

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My boyfriend of 2 years and I haven’t had sex in 6 months. Every time I’ve tried to broach the subject he tries to change topic. Yesterday I’d had enough and told him that it feels like he doesn’t want to be with me anymore so maybe we should just break up. He finally told me the truth and it was worse that I could have imagined. He said that I’ve gained a lot of weight recently and he struggles to have sex with bigger women. I know I’ve gone from a 14 to a 16 since I started WFH but I don’t think it’s such a big change that he has the right to be disgusted with me now. I don’t know what to do. 10. November 2024

Heya hun you deserve a partner who loves and respects you, no matter what. Weight changes are totally normal, and the fact he avoided the topic only to blame it on your body is a major red flag. A real partner supports you they don’t make you feel less than. Take a step back and think about what you deserve!


Hey Oloni girl I need advice. It’s a bit heavy so my boyfriend of five years just proposed and I was over the moon until he dropped a bomb..two years ago, he had a one night fling with someone else. I found out when we were drunk one night and he admitted it. He swears it was a mistake and kept quiet to avoid hurting me, but here’s the twist…the other person recently died. She was his ex girlfriends, friend. Now I’m stuck. He says he’s fully committed to me and wants to move forward, but I feel betrayed and don’t know if I can trust him again. Am I crazy to forgive him and go ahead with the wedding, or should I walk away? I’m so torn 10. November 2024

This is a huge betrayal and it feels so twisted due to who she is, the friend of an ex? I understand she has passed away and it’s very sad, but her not being here today doesn’t change the fact that he hid this lie for some time AND proposed? What else has he lied about? Marriage is a serious commitment and if there’s already some distrust, I wouldn’t jump the broom right now. Take your time to really see how you feel and perhaps talk to a therapist. If he’s cheated before, why wouldn’t he do it again?

Oloni


Hi Oloni, I was out shopping and looked very cute may I add lol and this man approached me, he asked for my number and I don’t know why but I gave it to him because he was very charming and something in my mind was telling me this man has money ! After WhatsApping it turns out he is a millionaire lol I have a boyfriend btw but it’s complicated so that’s why I didn’t feel bad for giving out my number , however I don’t know if I should give this man my energy and go on a date or give my energy to the boyfriend who I’m not 100% with atm.. any advice would help please 6. November 2024

Girl, if you’re not officially in a relationship with either talk to them both.
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