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You did wayyy too mcuh for a guy you were simply talking to, you know that right? If he hasn’t spoken to you in two weeks, he’s not interested in you.
Stop making fake accounts, to e-stalk and put yourself out there and find a new love interest.
It really depends on the delivery of how he said it, did he straight say “yo, the way you eat is ridiculous” or was it, “I’m worried about you and think you should try to be careful with your eating habits”.
Either way, it’s very clear you’re offeneded, talk to him about it.
Hey love, it’s completely normal for your body to be different. As women we’re always going to look at the changes our bodies go through. Your postpartum vagina is wetter and only because that’s the change your body went through, some actually go through a lot of dryness, so this sounds like a good thing. However, if it is making you uncomfortable, try speak to a professional.
Oh wow! I think the best thing to do is accept he’s not circumcised and instead, talk to him about cleaning his penis more and perhaps even giving it a rinse before getting intimate. We spend so much time criticising each others genitals that we forget what the male penis naturally looks like.
Please don’t make him feel ashamed of what he and every guy was naturally born with. Instead, have a mature conversation about what you’ve seen.
If you still feel like his uncircumcised penis makes you uncomfortable, then you might need to rethink this relationship.
I think the first issue which should be addressed is why he chose to have sex again with this first girl whilst you were asleep? Was that part of the deal? (If it was, then that’s fine).
Him wanting another threesome doesn’t mean you both have intimacy issues, it just means he’s quite adventurous and perhaps might even want a complete sexual open relationship with you.
Monogamy isn’t the only way to be with someone romantically, so instead talk to him about it, so you have a better understanding of what he’d like sexually in the future.