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I don’t know the ins and the outs of your whole relationship, but how do you leave someone when they’re in that position? I feel like he’s doing this out of guilt. He feels bad and is basically doing this for himself.
I could be wrong, so I’m hoping that as someone who actually knows this dude.. you make a wise decision.
I’m also really sorry to hear about what you went through! ❤️
I think it’s beautiful you’ve come to me for advice on how to build up your girlfriends confidence.
First thing I will say is to be patient, her self esteem and confidence issues can’t be worked on over night. As her boyfriend continue speaking life into her in various ways. Tell your girlfriend what you find beautiful about her and not the typical ‘i love your smile’ lol! Although that is sweet, express something she probably thinks you’ve never noticed before.
Talk about how beautiful her personality is too! It’s important that you let her understand that it’s what’s inside that matters most.
Go on planned/surprised dates, listen to her.. show her you appreciate her.
You clearly like sexually exploring with more with the other guy. Perhaps you should try teaching your actual boyfriend what you like and desire innthe bedroom. It’s very common to be sexually compatible with someone and not totally there with another..
Woah. Well first.. thanks for that Snapchat hack. I’m sure plenty of women who should not be going through their mans phone will appreciate it.
Back to the dilemma… he’s clearly manipulated the situation and he’s lame for doing so. Yes, you were wrong for going through his phone.. but it certainly doesn’t trump his inappropriate actions. Do not fall for this. You both do need a breather, and when you do speak next explain your thoughts on his behaviour. How are you supposed to trust him again?
As for your holiday together.. if i were you, I’d look into trying to getting my money back. Why would you want to be on holiday with someone who has gone out of their way to save women on snapchat as ‘team sc’ and family members? It shows his actions were premeditated. Nah sis.
Why are you living with someone you’ve dated for 10 months? He’s gotten comfortable. Move out and tell him how you feel again.