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Hi! How do I make sure I’m discharge free before getting eaten out..kinda scared bc I don’t usually get a lot of it but it can sometimes be in between the labia
28. May 2018
Discharge is very natural! But it’s always best to run to the bathroom, just for a presex prep.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, me and my boyfriend who Ive been with for 5yrs now don’t have sex as much anymore as we used to (most is three, maybe four times a month) however when we do have sex, recently it feels like he’s not making much effort with it? Like he wants me to suck his dick and ride him but he hasn’t went down on me in a while and it feels like he can’t be bothered when I try get him to go on top/doggy etc he doesn’t make much effort with it. What do you suggest?
28. May 2018
Hey hun, there could be several reasons, but you have to talk to him and tell him what you’ve noticed? Sex between two people should not be selfish or feel forced. A conversation needs to happen so you can find out exactly what’s up.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, I need you recommendations on the best website to find a sugar daddy who is willing to splurge. X
27. May 2018
seeking arrangements and honestly dating apps where you change the age pref to 40-50something years old lol. Good luck
x
Hi Oloni, I’ve recently i’m pregnant. The guy and I are just friends who sleep together regularly. Neither of us have felt the need to force the relationship aspect so we never have. I told him straight away and he asked what I wanted to do. I said I needed some time to think but his response was ‘You’d be silly if you’re contemplating keeping it’. I’m still trying to gather my own thoughts and feelings about it all and I also don’t expect him to be wanting a child at such a young age but I’m hurt hearing what he said. Should I go about my thoughts thinking ‘it’s my body, my choice’ or do I take what he’s saying into consideration and let that be the deciding factor. After all, if he doesn’t want it then I can’t force it upon him can I?
27. May 2018
Hey hun, I hope you’ve spoken to a sexual health nurse to discuss your options. His comment was insensitive and not okay. You didn’t do this on our own, so his response confuses me as to how you’d be ‘silly’. I understand he could be scared, but you’re both in this. So perhaps talk and see how you feel. Do not rush the process, but instead make a decision you think is right for you. It’s your body at the end of the day, so although he can and should responsibly share his thoughts and opinions, it’s your call.
Oloni
Hey Oloni, so you think guys mind ingrown hairs and scars down there?? My last wax appointment left me looking somehow 😅😩
27. May 2018
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