You’re not seeking attention, you’re emotionally frustrated, so question yourself. Why are you with her? Why are you allowing her to make you feel this way? She’ll only do what you let her.

You need to sit her down and be open with her, explain what you have just told me. This can’t be healthy, a relationship is supposed to be full of joy not a constant battle.

Get rid of him, he’s wasting your time and toying with your emotions, because he feels like he can.

Lots of foreplay and lubricant can help a penis fit inside comfortably.

Okay sexually? I’d say dress up. I’ve found out that a lot of women are not buying sexy play wear for the bedroom as they used to once upon a time and not lingerie, I’m talking sexual fantasy play wear.

Romance do something he’d enjoy in terms of a date. What does HE like doing? Experience that with him. Good luck.

This is a sticky one, but you’re going to have to be honest about this. This wasn’t a random, it was his friend. Some guys can look past this other can’t. The truth is depending on how mutual your feelings are/were for each other can only determine how he’ll react.