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Get rid of him, he’s wasting your time and toying with your emotions, because he feels like he can. Lots of foreplay and lubricant can help a penis fit inside comfortably. Okay sexually? I’d say dress up. I’ve found out that a lot of women are not buying sexy play wear for the bedroom as they used to once upon a time and not lingerie, I’m talking sexual fantasy play wear. Romance do something he’d enjoy in terms of a date. What does HE like doing? Experience that with him. Good luck. This is a sticky one, but you’re going to have to be honest about this. This wasn’t a random, it was his friend. Some guys can look past this other can’t. The truth is depending on how mutual your feelings are/were for each other can only determine how he’ll react. Hey love, I think you should do whatever makes you comfortable and not have the fear of how others may feel on the whole body count thing. Yes, you enjoy having sex just like plenty of. As long as you’re safe about it that’s all that should matter. We all have our own definition of what is ‘too high’. I did write a mini eBook about this too. It’s currently on sale, have a look: http://simplyoloni.com/product/the-number-between-her-legs/


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