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Ok so I don’t know if I’m being stupid and naive or I’m looking into this too deeply.. Basically I had sex with a guy and when he was done he came… On my back.. I told him at the time that I felt violated lol I dunno, am I over reacting or do I have the right to feel this way? I mean I’ve heard of it but It’s just never happened to me. 5. May 2015

If you feel violated, then you feel violated. I’d say he should have asked before doing that or let you know before hand.

Hi Oloni, I’ve known this guy for 2 years and we been seeing each other for a year. However it’s a long distanxe thing and he doesn’t want to get into a relationship with me, when i do. I don’t know whether to carry on progressing what we go or leave it? 4. May 2015

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Is it best to let someone go if you keep hurting them even if most of the time you don’t even realise you’re doing it. 4. May 2015

I’d say so, if you don’t know what hurts your partner after a period of time even AFTER it’s been discussed, you have to rethink some things.

Recently found out that my boyfriend deliberately avoided going home for 2months because he owes people money (He also lied to me about owing people money). However, he now owes my girl money and is reluctant in giving it back. I’ve tried to meet him on a number of occasions but he keeps on making up excuses about the money. I want to end it with him ( I think he knows it too) but we both have exams atm so I can’t do it right now. I don’t know how to go about getting my girls money as well as, breaking up with him.. Help! 4. May 2015

Only borrow what you can afford to lose. Sadly, your friend can’t hold a knife to his head to get her money back. The best way to go about getting it, depending on the amount would be going to a small claims court.

I’m glad you’re ending things with him, you don’t need to be with such an inconsiderate person.

My relationship has gone sour. Nothing we do works and it’s like we are holding on to it because we don’t know how to get by without each other. How do you suggest we go about letting each other go? 4. May 2015

You have to individually fund yourselves. My guess is that you’re so used to each other, that you have forgotten what life is like without each other. If things are sour, don’t make yourself unhappy. Neither of you should.

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