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Hi Oloni, congrats on your recent success and wish you many more in the future. This is not much of a dilemma but I am 21 and I am tired of being single. I do get male attention and sometimes we start talking and nothing ever comes out of it or I lose interest and visa versa. It’s becoming tiresome and I feel ready for a serious relationship as I haven’t had one yet. And before you say I should come to your event ( can’t remember the name lol) I don’t live in London. 😂 I am starting to think maybe something wrong with me ?
19. July 2015
hi oloni I love your blog btw , my boyfriend recently found out he had an sti and he gave it to me and suddenly I accused of cheating which is the obvious reason since we were having unprotected sex for 8 months and when I got checked mid way through our relationship I was clean so.however he claims he did not cheat and probably got it before me as he was on and off with another girl and I was a virgin when I met him anyways.I don’t kno what to do now he did tell me that this would never happen again but should I leave him?
19. July 2015
He’s lying and refuses to take responsibility, STI’s don’t fall from the sky. Leave.
What forms of contraceptive won’t interrupt my periods or make me fat lol?
19. July 2015
Contraception doesn’t make you put on weight, your diet does, as a nurse once informed me. Go to your local clinic and get more information.
How long should you wait to ask ‘what are we’?
19. July 2015
I met this guy not long ago and he’s perfect. The thing is, he’s a virgin. I’m scared he might be inexperienced and sex is really deep to me. I don’t know whether I should continue dating him?
19. July 2015
We were all virgins once, give the dude a chance.
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