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Hi Oloni, my boyfriend says he always initiates sex and to get out of my comfort zone. How do I go about it? I’m pretty shy 17. June 2019

Heya it’s pretty normal to feel shy, but once you start initiating it more, you just might get used to it. Try initiating by simply kissing him and leading into soft foreplay, that’ll help kick things off.

Oloni

Hi Oloni, my boyfriend of 2 and a half years went on a party holiday with his friends.. everything was all hood he was calling and we would facetime occasionally.. however I saw a video of him dancing with a girl, I really don’t know what to do or what to say to him. What would you do?.. Please help x 17. June 2019

This clearly makes you uncomfortable and that’s fine. I would advise you to speak to him immediately and perhaps set some boundaries. Would he be okay if you were on a party holiday dancing with a random?

Oloni

Dear Oloni, I’ve been struggling for the past couple of years to orgasm. I’ve realised the only thing that gets me close enough is the friction from dry sex however this usually hurts guys when I do this. I don’t enjoy penetration and often lie about being on my period so they will let me hump them. I’m left thinking the only solution for me to orgasms is scissoring, problem is I’m straight. Do you have any help or advice? 17. June 2019

Why don’t you try using sex toys, it sounds like you enjoy clitoral pleasure more.

Oloni

Hi Oloni, huge fan of you and what you do! So, me and my boyfriend just had a baby but he hasn’t helped me at all financially with the baby and I’m starting to get frustrated about it. I’ve mentioned it and he keeps saying that he’s getting himself together then he’ll help. I’m considering just leaving him and doing this by myself because I’d rather do it alone knowing that I’m actually alone. Am I overreacting or should I give him a chance? If so, how long should I wait? 17. June 2019

You definitely need to dump him. It’s disgusting that he hasn’t helped you at all with the upkeep of both your child. It’s also extremely irresponsible. He’s leaving everything for you to handle which is worrying. If he was serious about making sure his child had nappies or food to eat he’d have found a way to make money during your pregnancy. Get him on CSA as soon as and find ways the government can also help you and your child. Good luck and congratulations!

Oloni

Hi Oloni, when me and my fiance have a argument/fall out he doesn’t speak to me he can literally give me silent treatment for days!! Is 17. June 2019

That’s not okay and something you need to discuss with him before you think about getting married. Perhaps see a marriage counsellor. Having a fall out is completely normal, couples disagree all the time. What matters is how you both choose to resolve the issue, the silent treatment shouldn’t be part of it.

Oloni

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