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Hello Oloni, I’m in love with my best friend. He is now engaged and we have accepted that our friendship will not be the same. I have tried to distance myself, which only leads to me missing him. We both distanced but still end up lotioning. I cherish our friendship and want to enjoy it as much as possible before he gets married in September. At the same time, we both end up catching feelings and try to get rid of them. What should i do? I don’t lose my bestfriend yet..
23. March 2020
You both have a very unhealthy and SELFISH relationship. You need to protect yourself and end the friendship, as it sounds you’re already into deep. If he wanted to be with you, he wouldn’t have proposed to a whole other person.
Oloni
Hey Oloni, my bf has a 5yr old and his pictures of the child with the mum on his phone/ pictures together of when they went to events or outings. Is it wrong of me to ask him to delete them as they aren’t together. Is it necessary to keep?. Is it weird to ask your partner to delete old pictures or are there allowances for bbymums etc. Am I wrong to feel uncomfortable. Thank you in advance
23. March 2020
I don’t think you should be dating someone with a kid if this makes you uncomfortable. He has a family, it’s VERY normal for him to have photos with his child and the mother of his child in his phone and even on social media.
Oloni
Hi, any good lube to use? Thank you
23. March 2020
Yes my fav MUSE.
Hey Oloni my bf has the coronavirus and kept it quiet. He never told me cus he didn’t think it was that much of a big deal. He only told me after we had sex. I’m not mad at him but I’ve been keeping away and he’s annoyed, when I should be annoyed. I’ve advised him on his to take care of himself but I’m now worried about my health. Do I self isolate? Do I tell my family? (I live with my mum, grand dad and brother) my bf keeps asking me to come over and see hIM AND SAYS IDC ABOUT HIIM HELP.
23. March 2020
We answered this on ep 56 of Laid Bare!
Hey oloni two nights ago I went out with my bf of 5 years. I got a lil drunk and was bursting to pee. As he was driving us home I accidentally wet myself in the passengers seat of his car. I was embarrassed too intoxicated to clean it, so he dropped me home and stayed mad at me. The following day, he called me to come and clean it even though I was out already with friends. I even had work the following day, but he made sure I went round to his place late at night just to clean his car seat (this was around midnight). I understand he’s annoyed, but he’s been angry with me since. My girls think he should of cleaned it instead of waiting a day for me to come around. Do you think he should have been so extra for me to come around and do that? I’m his girlfriend, not some random lady. I just have mixed feelings now.
12. July 2019
You need to tell him how it made you feel. As a partner there are things you will have to do for one an other when accidents happen. He could have got it cleaned properly and perhaps asked you to cover the costs. Him asking you to go to his house to clean the car seat, just seems like a punishment.
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