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Oloni i have trouble meeting guys help. What can i do? 7. July 2019

Then switch up your routine. Go to different places, especially this summer. Try different dating apps other than Tinder. You have Bumble and Happn.. also my personal favourite at the moment is Hily, but only cus there’s more brothers 😂 you can get it here: bit.ly/2JaWRLA

Hi Oloni, my boyfriend doesn’t gas my nudes/naked videos as much as he used to and it’s making me feel so insecure. Like I don’t want a million emojis or hearts or anything like that. I’ve just noticed a difference. I feel like he’s seen it all so he just doesn’t care as much or it doesn’t affect him. What should I do to make myself feel better? 7. July 2019

Have a conversation with him and let him know exactly what you told me. It’s normal to want attention when you send your partner intimate images. Of course you don’t want him to be fake, so ask if there’s any issues.

Oloni

Hey Oloni hope you’re well. Just need your opinion on something. Basically i have a real passion for hair and I’ve doing it for a very long time. And I have a service in which people pay me to do their hair. I do both male and female hairstyles. Now, I have a boyfriend & some guys have asked me to do their hair for Them. My boyfriend basically tells me I can’t do hair for my male clients as he doesn’t like the idea of me going to a males house to do their hair because he thinks the guys will try something. I have never done anything with any of my clients when I go to their house to do hair as it is strictly business. What do you think I should do/ say to my boyfriend? 7. July 2019

Your boyfriend is being extremely unreasonable and you need to let him know this. You can’t let him stop you from making money due to his insecurities. Ask him why he feels this way? Have either of you cheated on each other before? Would he prefer if they came to your house, while he’s there??

Oloni

How do I get my partner to match my nasty 😭 In 2019 he does eat pussy, he will be funny about kissing me after getting head and I generally feel like he’s selfish when it comes to sex. I’ve mentioned it to him and even withheld head or sex to try prompt compromise but to no avail. I don’t want to leave him but a girl has neeeds. What do you advise? 7. July 2019

Sexual compatibility is important for some for others it seriously isn’t. If you’ve tried to compromise by holding out on sexual acts. Try asking what all his boundaries are and see if you can work around it.

For example. If he’s not into oral sex, try getting an oral sex toy or flavoured lubricant to see if that can help.

Best of luck

oloni

How do I get the control back in a “situationship”? I feel like I’ve lost my voice, so how do I get that back? Should I play hard to get and make myself less available? We only see each other about twice a week as it is.. 7. July 2019

Sis, why do you even want advice on a situationship? If you’re after a relationship in general communicate this. If he’s not interested, cut him off. He returns wanting the same thing then cool. If not move on.

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