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Hi oloni, so my fwb never texts me after we get together and only texts to make appointments. How do i bring up that i want to talk more often and I just want more affection cause it feels abit cold. 11. November 2020

You need a boyfriend. Why does it bother you that he’s not texting after? I mean there are no real rules to friends with benefits, it’s just I feel there’s a deeper reason as to why it gets to you.

Oloni

My long term boyfriend is ghosting me,ignoring all my calls and messages but i can see he’s active. I love him a lot and i feel in the dark as i don’t understand why he can’t have a conversation with me if he doesn’t want to be together anymore when we have been together for years. 11. November 2020

I honestly think you should show up at his house since he wants to get crazy. It’s selfish and irresponsible to behave this way, but it’s clear through his actions how he feels about you and the relationship.

Oloni

I have been dating this guy for almost a year. And almost all the time, we fight over him flirting with other women. On confronting him, he would go as far extremes of denying the women and saying they were coming onto him. He would call them just to try prove this fact, but the receipts proved the opposite. Three months back, he came around and told me what he wanted and I did too. The conclusion was being serious and working towards marriage. He vowed that his old ways would no longer be an issue. But recently, I just discovered he has started flirting again, and texting every Mary and Jane on social media, and secretly deleting the messages. What should I do? 11. November 2020

What do you think the sensible thing to do is sis?

Leave!

Oloni

i just got a DM on twitter from a sugar daddy, he’s saying he doesn’t want anything sexual in return just someone to talk to. Do i accept or is this cheating on my boyfriend? i’m scared to tell him as he is very jealous & gets hurt if i like another guys insta picture. please help 14. October 2020

If you know it’ll hurt your boyfriend, I think you have the answer!

Oloni

My boyfriend thinks it’s okay to be friends with a girl he has previously had sex with. This does not sit well with me, am I over reacting 14. October 2020

If it makes you uncomfortable, (which it clearly does) ask him if he’d be ok if you did the same. Look, if he’s not willing to understand how you feel, there are plenty of guys out there who won’t put your emotions through this.

Oloni

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