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I started talking to this guy two months ago. We get on really well. We went on a couple of dates which went really well, on the third date I invited him over to mine and we had a games and movie night. We ended up having sex. Fourth “date” he came over to mine and we watched tv together and slept with each other again. I was then a bit nervous about whether he just thought that we were just fucking, so I asked him if we are just fuck buddies. He said “yes and no – he likes where we are right now”. I asked him as I want there to be potential for a relationship. I don’t want him to make a decision on whether he truly wants a commitment now, I want to know things are going in the right direction. I don’t want to be anyone’s fuck buddy, just got rid of one, don’t want a new one. Do I grow some balls and ask him properly where this is going, or is it too soon? Or do I just end things now before I end up catching feelings and it hurts me a lot more? 11. November 2020

Be up front and simply ask properly before things get too deep.

Oloni


Hi oloni, so my fwb never texts me after we get together and only texts to make appointments. How do i bring up that i want to talk more often and I just want more affection cause it feels abit cold. 11. November 2020

You need a boyfriend. Why does it bother you that he’s not texting after? I mean there are no real rules to friends with benefits, it’s just I feel there’s a deeper reason as to why it gets to you.

Oloni

 


My long term boyfriend is ghosting me,ignoring all my calls and messages but i can see he’s active. I love him a lot and i feel in the dark as i don’t understand why he can’t have a conversation with me if he doesn’t want to be together anymore when we have been together for years. 11. November 2020

I honestly think you should show up at his house since he wants to get crazy. It’s selfish and irresponsible to behave this way, but it’s clear through his actions how he feels about you and the relationship.

Oloni


I have been dating this guy for almost a year. And almost all the time, we fight over him flirting with other women. On confronting him, he would go as far extremes of denying the women and saying they were coming onto him. He would call them just to try prove this fact, but the receipts proved the opposite. Three months back, he came around and told me what he wanted and I did too. The conclusion was being serious and working towards marriage. He vowed that his old ways would no longer be an issue. But recently, I just discovered he has started flirting again, and texting every Mary and Jane on social media, and secretly deleting the messages. What should I do? 11. November 2020

What do you think the sensible thing to do is sis?

Leave!

Oloni


i just got a DM on twitter from a sugar daddy, he’s saying he doesn’t want anything sexual in return just someone to talk to. Do i accept or is this cheating on my boyfriend? i’m scared to tell him as he is very jealous & gets hurt if i like another guys insta picture. please help 14. October 2020

If you know it’ll hurt your boyfriend, I think you have the answer!

Oloni


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