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Hey Oloni. I’ve been seeing a guy I met off a dating app for nearly a year and have never seen him outside. When he met me I was in a state and agreed to go over to his without a date. We’ve been seeing each other since and we only ever hook up at his. I love casual sex but I’ve never had a FWB or fuck buddy who wouldn’t go outside and it’s starting to make me feel like it’s about me. I’ve brought it up and he chuckled it off. Would you see a guy like this?
13. May 2022
You don’t seem like you have a say in this set up, it just feels like you’re going with the flow. If you want more, stop seeing him and wasting your time. No I wouldn’t continue to spend time with him and you shouldn’t either.
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Hi Oloni. Im a FWB situation, and in this FWB we had a brief conversation about safe sex can came to an agreement that we would have sex without condoms as long as we had sex with condoms with others. At the time neither of us were having sex with other people. He recently informed me he’s having sex with someone new, who he does fuck with condoms and he disclosed he also eats her out. When I asked if he knows when/if she has gotten tested he said no and that’s he’s shy to ask her. He trusts that everything is fine because the new person he having sex with apparently just came out of a long-term relationship and I presume hasn’t had any new sexual partners. I am uncomfortable about the idea of my FWB eating me out and kissing me without knowing her sexual history/testing because of the possibility of things being transferred orally. Am I being irrational.
13. May 2022
We answer this on the latest episode of laid bare out on Tuesday!
Hey Oloni. So I’ve been in a long term relationship for almost 10 years and I’m under 30. We’ve known each other most of our lives, we got together as kids and as we’ve grown into adults we’ve started to build a life together, moved in together, shared finances ect. Long story short, he’s always been for his friends. He will drop anything and everything for his friends & although I love that he’s loyal and reliable for them. He isn’t that to me & it’s made me resentful. 2 years ago I broke up with him, he moved out and I moved on. Got the best dick I’d had in my life during the year we wasn’t together. I only slept with one person during this time however it went past just sex with this person and we both caught feelings. I locked off the new guy about a year in because my Ex was promising to be everything and more I’d asked for, for all these years. So yeah i gave up the good dick and took him back and all he’s done is quickly slip back into old ways. He does nothing to ease my life like I do for him. Every thing I do to run our house, feed us, clean his clothes & after him. All I ask is for some appreciation. All of 10 years together and I can count on 2 hands the amount of fun dates we’ve been on. So yeah. Also just to add he used to text little tramps all the time during the start of the relationship so I’ve always kinda had a issue with that too! lol sorry this is long 🙃
17. April 2022
You know what you need to do.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, a guy I’ve been talking to has arranged a first date with me. His last message was that he’s going on holiday for the weekend. Intuition struck bc his story seemed like he was on his own and after some digging I realised he has a girlfriend and is on holiday with her. I’m glad I found out sooner but my bestie is saying we should have some fun with this information. Any thoughts?
15. April 2022
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