A year? Oh nono sis, what is you doing? If you’d like a relationship with him. Communicate this.

Oloni

Thanks for coming! Pun intended 😉 also apologies for responding now..

Right.. I’d suggest practicing and usung your imagination. Allow yourself to be turned on, don’t rush into it by whipping out your new vibrator. Play with your body.. make love to YOURSELF.. ease into masturbating.

It won’t get you off as quickly as porn, but what’s the rush?  Get to know your body and try to discover new erogenous zones.

Oloni

Tell whatever you’re comfortable telling… BUT .. do it over a period of time. Don’t tell him on the first date how many times your ex cheated on you or when you cheated on your ex. Be patient! It also depends on the seriousness of the past relationships.

Oloni

You’re not trying hard enough. If you feel like this is morally wrong, cut all ties and block his number.

Oloni

The thing about love is it’s never straightforward and in this scenario it’s certainly complicated. I can understand how your friend is feeling because he cleary values your friendship, but at this point it’s a bit too late.

Feelings have developed and you’ve also been intimate. If he feel like he can’t try or give it a shot with you, you need to distance yourself before your feelings go completely over the top. Maybe space might even allow him to figure things out.

Oloni